theoriginalbellanova
Ms. B. Nova
theoriginalbellanova

This type of man ALWAYS goes for the “she didn’t fire me, I quit” lie— followed by a litany of indictments of how ‘she’ is inevitably crazy, unstable, full of daddy issues, needs to work on her personal development, etc.

I was thinking the exact same thing. This mentality in men is much more prevalent than you would ever want to believe. I have experienced the type way too many times.

Precisely. Also this: “and recently she’s realized I don’t enjoy her company” — wait, what? She “realized”? Because you couldn’t simply tell her yourself? I guess he’s the strong, silent, long-suffering type.

GTOW?

No kidding. The cluelessness would be laughable if it weren’t so infuriating. Men who feel the need to measure their masculinity based on the number of women they fuck and then drop are pretty much the definition of damaged goods. Only idiots like this would miss this.

I’m listening to one of their podcasts now and literally every single woman they talk about is treated to a pop psychology diagnosis explaining how everything is/was her fault, how she needs to “develop” herself better (me neither), and how she is or isn’t worth another “go.”

His reaction to being asked if she was capable of consent was “Uh Oh. That’s my bad.”

In your mind, they’re smooth operators. To those of us that don’t hate and fear women, they’re misogynistic assholes that deal with their issues by hating on the women who are willing to have sex with them.

The disconnect is happening because you can’t connect sex with hatred. It’s rapist culture. Sex isn’t occupying the same space as it does for you or I. It’s not about love or sensuality. For these “people,” it exists in a toxic melange of desire for power and to degrade that which they hate. Sex is a commodity and a

Because using them for sex and then discarding them is an act of aggression that makes the men feel powerful.

Bonus points for quoting a character who is the ultimate representation of rape culture in fiction.

You say “smooth operators”, I say “sexual predators”. No, no one is mad that women had sex with them; they’re mad that these assholes were predating their community while appearing to be upstanding members of it.

From the post:

For some reason, this particular article really sort of frightened me - other pick up artists seem so pathetic, but these guys make me think of guys that I could have been susceptible to. Like, weird-pocket there isn’t ugly, and I like coffee, and you bet they come across as way less vile when trying to score. I once

I did the research for you. Apparently you keep X amounts of “plates” “spinning” so that you always have someone available to fuck you.

The irony that these two psychopaths are going around a town deeming various women “damaged” is absolutely stunning. Nothing is more “damaged” than thinking half the population of the globe are not as human as you are and are deserving of hate. Fuck these fucking fucks.

I don’t buy it for a second. This was “We got caught, and our moms saw it!” Typical bro apology where they equivocat half the apology with “probablys” and “seems” and “appears” kind of stuff.

and recently she’s realized I don’t enjoy her company and we’ve mutually parted ways

This is just so, so, sad! For the ladies and for them! You just don’t get it! He isn’t responsible for his own words and actions, you feminazi!

This brings to mind the words of Rhett Butler: