Ah, yes. I also realized too late that I spelled "Medea" wrong.

My mistake, poor choice of words.

Yeah, the more I think about it, the more I realize that this thread's existence on a site we all agree is largely aimed at men is a sign that "rape culture" is changing. What really strikes me is that these people — mostly men — are identifying their own behavior as rape or would-be rape. They are not bragging about…

I think the quote about desexualizing rape at the end is a good beginning of an answer to that question. Sometimes rape IS about sex. Guys should be taught how to be sure they have consent and how to reign it in when they don't have it. The idea that rape is exclusively performed by a sociopath lurking in the shadows…