Yes, San Diego. I’m long gone to the East Coast though. I live in tiny town New England. I spend most of my time calling out/educating another white folk (I’m wicked popular!not really) and donating to groups who are actually able to do the work. My lived world is small, but I am more than happy to help where I can. I…

I’m an old bat. I remember talking about racism in the feminist movement in a Woman’s Studies class I took fucking 25 years ago.(Hey...SDSU alums!)I am both horrified and ashamed that we’ve made NO progress in that time. White feminists...we’re the problem here. Read. Listen. Be fucking better.

Might??

Another “Great Moment in White Foolishness” brought to you today by the United States Air Force.

“You can never have too much lube” is one of my personal mottos! Green Apple you say? ;)

Oh Grampie nooooooooooooooooooo staaaahhhhhppppp...

I’m sorry. Why hasn’t she been fired yet? What are they waiting for? I get that it’s fucking Alabama but come on now!

I will give him a more robust round of applause. Doing deep work on yourself is hard, even if it is based on fear of loss. How many people never do that and never change? It’s not something you just take a pill for and wake up better, It can be a painful experience. Good for him and his family he was able to do some…

I live in blue blue New England and I see this kind of shit every day. Offhand comments about not being able to “understand” someone with an accent. Perfectly understandable speakers btw. My Anglo-Indian gf was asked in a grocery line in Vermont if she was “a Mexican.” Referring to African Americans acting or not…

I had employees that were just awful and had been there 20 years. I had one tell me, “I’ve been here 27 years. You wanna know how many managers I’ve seen come and go? Guess who’s still here. Not them” Worst group of employees I’ve ever had.

I was a manager at TRU maybe 15 years ago. They were struggling then, but they blamed Walmart. I was hired as part of a new crop of managers who were going to “turn things around”. What we found was a management and culture so moribund and entrenched that we could change nothing. I only lasted a year and it was awful.…

In New England, it’s a grindah!

Nobody cares about the millions of guns in the hands of Americans that are designed to kill Americans.

Just going to squeeze in here between all the racists and shitheads to tell you that “dollars to donuts” Is one of my favorite phrases and I am tickled to see it!

Thank you for sharing your story. We need more women unafraid to speak their truth. The conversation we’re all having about consent is a long time coming. Men can no longer expect access to our bodies against our will, be it by force or coercion. We need a chorus of voices, thank you for adding yours.

Your point about BDSM is excellent. Not only the use of safewords, but the communication is pretty open too.. I’m a switch too, and there are always conversations before anything even happens about what limits someone may have. So not only is consent clear but you have a really good expectation of your partner’s likes…

If it had ever had a soul, he wouldn’t be President at all. All those virtues we like to imagine America has have come on the backs and at the expense of indigenous people and by exploiting African Americans. Our values are expansion and hegemony at any cost. There is no soul. It’s a lie we tell ourselves so we can…

“He had all of that to say when he has put on significant weight and looks the way he does? OK. I guess he doesn’t hold the same standards for himself.”

Dumbass white frat boys and the horrible men they become think Sandler is fucking hilarious. My God he sucks.

Wait a minute, I have a blog. You can make money and get free stuff?? Really? Shit, I’m doing it wrong...