I live in bluest blue state New England. That shit is the same here. They’re slightly less flagrant but the racism is the same. “I’m not racist. I don’t mind black people as long as they don’t act ghetto.” kind of bullshit. They think that by focusing on the perceived behavior that they ’re somehow not racist. 90% of…

So she wrote a so-called “feminist” book. I can write a murder mystery, doesn’t make me a murderer. She no feminist hero. She has never been.

Thank you for this. I’m often puzzled and distressed by my white progressive friends and their inability to look at the role they play in upholding white supremacy. White feminist friends in particular. They’re literally blinded to any oppression but their own. It’s hard for me to understand. It’s a ghastly…

Any white person who expresses shock is being willfully ignorant.

Anybody sticking fingers down my throat is gonna be drawing back bloody stumps.

Feh, I’m surprised he’s not drinking that gravy from a fucking mug.

I don’t give a fuck about any of them. Rehab...lol. Don’t look to me for sympathy. You can find sympathy elsewhere. It’s in the dictionary between shit and syphilis. I’m not here for the poor menz. Just no.

Thanks for posting this. I’ve been knocking around a while on here although I’m permagray. I come here less often and usually only comment if something really makes me cranky now. I’m not super happy about the demographic change here. I work with almost all men, it was nice to be able to be here and not be subjected…

So, pretty much anywhere men are this shit is happening. Ok, got it.

We should be so lucky. :)

I’m a member of TST and all Greaves asked for was that the call the burn down the HQ be reported. Not to target the author, no doxxing...nothing else. I fail to see how this is abuse.

This may shock you, but many times the use of the word”like” is a signifier for a metaphor. A metaphor isn’t necessarily true but it used as an example. But points for trying to pick a fight instead of talking about the subject. Enjoy your day!

These sort of hit pieces are going to become common. The men in power are not going to let this “watershed” moment pass without push back. The aim is to make this a discussion instead of a reckoning. We’ll all talk about listening to both sides and they can walk away with nothing changing. It’s like talking to your…

Maybe they should help her regardless. Are we only going to help people who are suitable victims then?

I don’t know much about Dunham’s work. I’m old and cranky, not her demographic. I do know however, that she had been piping up about what a feminist she was and how we need to believe all women they talk about abuse. Oh, no...not if it’s a friend of hers. Then, of course, there are two sides and we just don’t know him…

Stellar choices, both.

I was going to say...I’m as gay af and I see no homophobia up in here.

I don’t know. I’m 52 and all this internalized misogyny “won’t someone think of the poor men” is seriously pissing me off. I do NOT give a fuck if some dude actually has to think about how he interacts with women. We have to think about how we interact with men every damn day so we don’t “send the wrong message” Fuck…