theladyvanishes
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Basic. Human. Empathy. It’s not a complex concept. No, a marriage isn’t ownership, but I assume most people are familiar with the idea of it and know inserting themselves into one is a fucked-up thing to do. I’m seriously agog you’re still defending this.

Honestly, I hate that “oh it’s only the married person’s problem” moral-vacuum bullshit. Oh, my friend killed a guy, but I don’t know their life! I’m pretty sure the ring my boyfriend gave me was stolen, but that’s not my problem! My mom embezzled a bunch of money, let’s go shopping!

I feel like this would be his reaction upon seeing this tattoo.

If you owe $50,000, you have a problem.

If you owe $53,000,000, your creditors have a problem.

Van Gogh made paintings, inanimate objects you can objectify all you want. Mixed couples make people, human beings with features that vary wildly, who you are exotifying and fetishizing by deciding in a blanket statement that they're more attractive than other people. Stop doing it. It's not cool, it's not cute, it's

I mean, I understand why it’s important to understand all that, BUT, I get really sick of people expecting an abortion to have all these confounding factors that make it less bad. It was absolutely not a decision of last resort for me - it was the easiest decision I ever made, and I felt actual joy and relief

Sergio Ramos. That is all.

Nothing has made me question everything about myself as much as falling in love did.

Yeah, I'm still trying to convince myself I'm not that into my boyfriend. "No, really, if we broke up, I'd probably be fine!"

A home run? This article completely ignores multiple other examples of Dunham's disturbing behavior with her sister. Was it done on purpose or out of the author's total ignorance of the actual details of the story?

Would whoever mused "I wonder what's up with Sydney Leathers" please promise to never do that again?

The description of this post as "fact-checking" needs to be fact-checked.

Ray Lewis: There is no comparison of me and Ray Rice. I'm far more similar to Aaron Hernandez.

"Dark hair is a strange choice," she wrote. "Why not blonde weave and blue eyes? Why have them look like Black women?"

Why is it always white authors who are always looking to find hidden racism in media and declare how terrible it is? Sometimes it feels like white authors are trying to explain racism to the Black community and how offended people should be. Can you imagine how annoying it would be if men were always trying to tell

I was a club kid in the late 80's/ early 90's, and went to lots of the same parties as RuPaul, LaHoma Van Zandt, Lady Bunny, Larry Tee, Michael Alig (yes, THAT one), and no one ever used "tranny" or "she-male" as a slur/hate speech... I think it is a generational thing. I remember where there were silly contests (like

I am as pro-LGBTQ as you can get. HOWEVER, I need transgender women to stop referring to non-transgender women as "Fish." Use of this term by individuals in the transgender community, e.g. Janet Mock, is not endearing or cute, it is in fact, offensive and just plain misogonistic. If you want respect you have to give

Most guys who think they "settled" have no idea that they actually hit the jackpot for their attractiveness level until there is some sort of rude awakening.

the fuck?! How are views like this getting so much support on here?! What a blanket statement! Do you know every gay man in the world? I'm gay, and I am a huge feminist. Fuck this shit.