If you go through your list of past loves and they are all losers, the one thing they all have in common is.....

Normally the power structure is the issue, where the older male has influence and power and can use that against a younger female. In this case I would say it’s reverse. Selena is on the top of her game right now and Orlando is either “The guy who was in the Pirates movies with Johnny Depp” or “The hot elf from LOTR”

Why is this a thing?

This kind of joke will not exist anymore

And the reason this joke will no longer exist is because, more and more, people who used to feel like they couldn’t speak freely about being insulted now feel like they can. They aren’t afraid.

The paging Dr. Faggot joke is still how guys talk to each other, Drew. You know it and I know it. We just can’t say it in public anymore, but we all know its still how people talk. Which should be okay.