This does not mean that he has stopped mourning. He just made room for love that is in his life right now too.

I know it seems “fast” to a lot of people, which is fine, but let people make their own choices and mistakes instead of pointing fingers. People heal differently, we don’t know their relationship and we don’t know everything about his previous relationship. It’s like... relationships are hard and it’s even harder…

Continued from my previous response, this is also because I hate that people always tell women/daughters to be “careful.” I don’t really imagine any mother telling their son not to send nudes. Why? Because it is part of a shaming culture for women, no matter how much people deny that it is, and that it is “just a…

I would swear to God that if she ever told me that, I would tell her to go ahead, and if people used it against her, I’ll let her know that there is nothing to be ashamed of and her sexual expression is up to her. Also: revenge porn is a crime, so why would it be on her if some asshole decided to shame her by…

I don’t see how telling someone not to drink/not to wear short skirt/not to go out at night is “vastly” different from telling people not to take nude pics or not to send them. They are all extensions of victim blaming, because you cannot control when and how people will decide to rob, rape, or hack/violate your…

That’s a dangerous comparison because you could say that same goes for women who drink at parties - like, so many women get raped drunk at parties so don’t drink and don’t go late at night and don’t wear anything revealing. It’s still putting the responsibility on the victims instead of telling people not to hack, or…

And don’t go outside because someone might kill you

...That doesn’t mean they would want to lose that very job where they could get paid hundreds of thousands. Acting is not a very secure job for many actors, and if they don’t have a project, they don’t have income.

I’m surprised because whenever I saw her on Hawaii Five-O I cringed, just really bad acting overall. (Not excusing the pay gap, no surprise that Hollywood is horrible to Asian actors...)

But you made it about domestic violence as you dismissed Rob being a domestic abuser because “you could imagine” her doing the same, saying that both are abusers. I just don’t see how that’s a logical leap.

Thanks for understanding! It was my fault for projecting. I know someone who always claims a bad phone when they’re just a bad speller, and I think I projected that onto you and it irked me. It was my bad.

Okay. I’m sorry and I did not mean to come off as rude, and now that I think about it I think it was rude. I apologize and I understand.

She had pictures, video, and witnesses close to him confirming it(after lying about it), and the case was dismissed because you know, he’s a famous, wealthy white men. So I’m going to go with actual abuse here, and the other one as “alleged.” Either way, even if both cases were true, it doesn’t mean that she deserved…

And I’m sure when investigation happens and the victim is proven to be right, you will be sympathetic... or maybe not, just because you don’t approve of her life.

That was a really long post for someone who claims to not care and wouldn’t waste time.

This is what people say to abuse victims all the time when they want to absolve the abuser of blame. “We weren’t there so we never know.”

Also, there’s a difference between saying that “they knew what they were getting into, so they have partial responsibility for going back” and saying that being abused was their fault. You seem to be really mixing them up.

Yeah. You clearly don’t know anything about how human psychology or scientifically proven facts work, so I’m just going to leave you alone. I really don’t want to wish this on you, but I hope that if you are ever abused, someone will tell you that you are an idiot for not leaving and that it’s your fault.

And what’s your point? That she “deserves it”?

You clearly have never been abused, and you don’t understand why so many people who are smart, eloquent, and independent stay in abusive relationships. But so easy when they could just walk away, as you see it, right?