that’s really cool. i made it in a crockpot but a steamer is probably even more authentic.

i honestly have no idea. she may have thrown it out. but i will be there for thanksgiving so that is my opportunity to find out.

ah fuck. i’m sorry your coworkers suck. I have a longstanding habit of trying to use logic on people and lord knows that doesn’t always work!

oh man. your cat is so cute!

ok. well. i’m a white woman in the united states which means my experiences with racism are limited. but there is one thing i do know and can tell you for sure: not giving any answer is sometimes a good answer.

tree topper... who knows. $28 is probably reasonable. I have a fifties style glass doodad that my sister once bought then gave to me because she was moving to new york and could not bring such things.

you have to make two puddings?

lara bars are good, they’re just nuts and dried fruit... will that do what you need?

oh fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck. trump couldn’t even disavow someone from the KKK when he received an endorsement from a KKK person.

i don’t like shiny lip colors at all, but that’s just me. i’m trying to be a good feminist and understand that people get to make their own damn choices!!!!

my mom has dumb things to say about marriage and welfare. maybe not the same as your mom but i thought i’d commiserate a little. sometimes older people have crap opinions.

dammit i meant to say this is probably NOT enough to get you to the point of being able to afford a house

i thought that might be the answer, just get to googlin’

“buy less of a house” is a legit option, not just a dismissive phrase you hear from internet commenters. if you can find a smaller place in a different price range, you are still building equity. you are still a homeowner.

ok so this is probably enough to get you to the point of being able to afford a house, but one thing that might help a bit is changing your cell phone carrier. there is a company called Ting that structures the rates and payments very differently. they don’t have... contracts. you have to buy a phone yourself but the…

can you drive for uber or would that not help out enough?

does anyone know of a decent erotic book?

I’m going to make butternut squash soup. i made it a couple of days ago and I think I put in too much half and half. this time there will only be a small splash. I’m going to cook this as many times as I need to till I get it right!

eos, dammit. cannot spell/type

weird. i don’t know what in the eso you reacted badly to.