Fellow white lady here, I go with "nilla" (like the wafer/my skin tone). it's an easy substitution, one can go "Nilla, please", or boast that one is the "illest nilla alive" and not mess up the intended flow.
Fellow white lady here, I go with "nilla" (like the wafer/my skin tone). it's an easy substitution, one can go "Nilla, please", or boast that one is the "illest nilla alive" and not mess up the intended flow.