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I think I border on being an old. When I was in HS all it took was on rumor to rip a girl down. We didn't have web cams or cell phone pictures. I did go to school during a time when varsity football teams could rape a unconscious girl and be excused from any wrong doing because the girl didn't want anyone to know. We

Get naked all you want but adult men shouldn't be using naked girls as blackmail fodder.

Thank you for your insight. I do agree that sex education should be better and I do see the relationship between sexual exploration and self worth. My experience (and mine alone) have been that sex is enjoyable, it makes me feel good about my self and builds on a realtionship with some one (whatever that relationship

Sex is an amazing thing that is shared with two (or how ever many you want to include) people that should never end in shame. What this man did was deplorable. I think a lot can be attributed to age and inexperience but also an emotional need. No sorry needed :) I see how it could of came off. I'm also a parent with a

Like I have said nothing wrong with being naked, having sex, porn, doing what makes you happy. Being sixteen and needing constant validation from older men can be problematic and unhealthy which seems to be a problem with girls in this country.

The woman in the story stated that she felt that she had to have male attention to feel validated. That need is different than loving your body or being comfortable naked. The constant need for male validation isn't healthy, any mental health professional will agree with that.

Thank you.

I have a daughter, she's very young though but she lives in a different world than I did. Honestly stories like this scare the every living hit out me. Do I raise her the best I can and just hope for the best or do I lock her away till college? I feel like in ten year I'm going to be in an uphill battle against a

Naked does happen but a 16 year old getting naked for a 22 year old is predatory behavior on the part of the man.

That's a huge question and why has our culture devalued people to where this is acceptable. This is so beyond "boys will be boys". Maybe it's the times? I grew up when the internet was new so I don't know if it's a by-product of that or what. How do we teach basic human civility in our children?

The difference here is women getting naked and girls getting naked. She was a child when this happened, stripping for a 22 year old man. How is that even remotely OK? I get it people have ex, people do what makes them feel good, I have no problem with that. What I do have a problem with is children being exploited

The root of this problem is not girls getting naked or boys looking for free live porn, it's how do we instill self worth in our children so they are not seeking out attention at a young age in unhealthy ways and how do we instill that people are worth more than being naked shots on a screen. This is not a rant about

Please tell me that' not a thing now? There's a group of Messianics that have alluded to that but I've never taken time to actually get that deep in to it.

The greatest sex education I had was watching my friends in high school get pregnant because no one told them about birth control or condoms. It opened up dialog with my parents and they were open and honest (I was 14) When I was ready to have sex I felt like they gave me all the tools I needed. I was baby free till I

An unimplemented egg being expelled is not the same as a miscarriage and your comment down thread was rude and horrific. You are ignorant on how medical science work and your last comment proves you are a troll.

Netflix. Go there this afternoon and re-watch then follow Retta on twitter and when she's not giving the worlds best Buffy recaps she will tell you that Donna gets more ass than a toilet seat but since she's a classy lady she doesn't flaunt that shit only coyly alludes to it like a boss.

I do worry, but I don't throw judgment on every parent doing something that I object too(with the exception of abuse then I use my mandated reported skills). I worked with poor disabled children and I have a background now in pediatrics so yes I do care. Sometimes you have a late night because you took your child to

OK this makes you totally legit in my book. I did teach for five years got burned out on giving the Bush torture test to Spanish speaking kids and went into medical records. I understand where you're coming from and how a late night out with the kiddo can look to an outsider.

A late night out does not create ADD, she was born with it or wasn't and as far as diabetes goes she is fed a wide range of organic and farm fresh food but thank you for your concern. My heart goes out to you, it must be a full time job worrying about the parenting practices of strangers and the state of America's

I don't care what you do or don't want to see but feel free to flash me a dirty look or two while I'm watching a game with my daughter and eating chili fries at a time that you feel is too late. I'll be sure check my purse for any fucks to give.