Sometimes I feel like I'm living on an island as one of the only people who didn't really dig this book.

I'm a big John Green fan, used to work in the children's/young adult section of a bookstore, and rec'd his stuff out the ying yang. I loved An Abundance of Katherines and Looking for Alaska, even read the latter…

There's no smoke without fire, obviously Korean Plastic doest have the highest number of all plastic surgery since South korea plastic surgery mainly focus on the face instead of body. so yes USA have highest body plastic surgery but Korea have still have the highest number of facial plastic surgery and thats what…

Sorry. You're wrong. And you have no concept of what is considered attractive in Asia.

Fuck those dudes. I trim and wax but I definitely leave hair down there. Totally bare is totally creepy. I also bet none of those dudes groom their shit. I've had to deal with some gnarly, untrimmed messes on dudes. Fuck that.

Is it strange that I have absolutely never, ever thought about this?

Just gonna leave this here.

oh my god... dying... Thank you.

Is this a story where you think you did something that women would find hot? Cause these stories are supposed to be by women describing times when they thought a man was unwittingly hot.

If we're specifically looking for weird randoms, not character traits/behaviors etc:

How about when a guy gets a little stern/protective with you? Not in a mean way, just like when he tries to look out for you and he gets a serious tone about it. GETS ME EVERY TIME. Am I insane?

I love when I overhear my husband talking to our cats, when he doesn't realize I'm listening. They were originally my cats, and he is not much of a cat person in general, but sometimes I'll overhear him from the other room explaining the finer points of baseball or old western films to one of them and it makes me feel…

Thank you so much for acknowledging this-as a lesbian, I want to ally with and supper gay men, but so many of them just seem to hate me and women and especially lesbians. It's like the misogyny of our culture minus any tempering of female company; it's like gay men can find a level of disrespect straight men only…

Sample set of 1 I freely submit, but some of the most repulsively misogynistic people I've ever met are young, newly "out" gay men. I swear the next man I hear use the word "fish" to refer to women, overtly or obliquely, will get my fist in his balls.

Level one is a Q-Tip in the ear.

Level 6

I appreciate people being nice to each other, but I frequently get annoyed with male chivalry. I frequently encounter situations where I try to hold a door open for a man (because I got there first, or he has his hands full, or it's just makes more sense, or I'm just trying to be nice) only to have him refuse to walk…

I agree. When I was reading his list, outside of the chair thing, I was thinking "umm I do all these things and I am a female." Although at first when he got to the sinking ship part I thought he was saying he would shove away any child or women and it was kind of amusing.

Come now. Don't you open and hold doors for everybody, not just women? and wouldn't you get things off high shelves for short people? Loosen jars for anybody in the kitchen with you who is having trouble?

Is this really a gender issue?

Lord, we're still romanticising the past?