Exactly! It's not mysterious or glamourous, it's sad and debilitating. Dead is dead, not something to marvel at.

I have a really hard time sympathizing with Sid anymore. Ever since I saw the documentary "What Happened to Nancy" and one of Sid's old friends recalled him killing a cat, it made me lose my 13 year old plaid bondage pants love for him.

I had a lovely day, went and saw The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo for the second time today by myself. I have to say, going to movies solo has to be one of my favorite things to do in the off-time. I get to see what I really want to see, despite having seen it already. I can take my time at the concession stand and…

Silverlake! Harvard and Stone is a great bar where you can meet some rock n' roll boys. They're never shy to flirt and always fun to dance to 60's and 70's music. No grinding to hip hop!

Thanks to you too, I'll be mindful of his feelings and firm in mine as well.

True enough, I have also been scarred by the great conversation, then intimacy happens and lust seems to be all thats on the dudes mind. Thanks for the wise words though, giving them the benifit of the doubt instead of setting it up for failure.

Good luck honey! You have to give yourself credit, you ARE strong for realizing what you had to do and having actually done it.

Okay, I haven't been one to ask for adivce on the male front in a while, but this is something that actually makes me want answers...

I rarely get the urge to smokeout anymore, but I reaalllllyyy wanna hotbox with Joan! And we can both laugh and pull out our respective clip in extensions together.