And when they show up at your job? Or at your local coffee shop? What then?

No, a woman is not a bad person for ghosting someone. You just keeping digging down, deeper and deeper. You’ve been ghosted with good cause.

Your comments on this post are exactly why you get ghosted.

That’s not how it works at all. You’ve never been in that position, so you don’t understand the dynamics. Take Patrick’s advice, and move on.

You are very unlikely to end up dead from a woman being ghosted.

But we don’t know that. We don’t know where you fall in that. And even if you don’t plan to murder us, stalking is a serious issue.

Politely rejecting ends up with the guy wanting to know WHY WHY WHY?! Often the reason is because the guy is not going to take “No/I’m not feeling a connection/I’m not interested” for an answer. So, if this bothers you, blame other men, not the women.

You’ve never head of stalking. Especially worse now with social media. A name and phone number is plenty for someone obsessive to start stalking.

Sorry, no. Wait a week, then move on. You’re not owed any explanation, ever. If there was a connection, she would have gotten back to you.

I’ll take being thought of as rude as opposed to being injured, stalked, or dead.

California minimum wage laws require an employer to count employee travel time as hours worked whenever it requires employees to travel, no matter when the travel occurs. This includes any time employees are required to travel out of town, whether on a one-day or overnight trip. An employer is not required to pay…

At Christmas, we would buy one fancy gift to come from Santa, then two or three other items that the kids had been wanting. The kids were excited to open multiple gifts, but not over excited or overstressed. One year, my MIL did the piles of toys thing you mentioned. The kids hated it. They reacted just like yours.

My local indy bookstore carries new and used books. I used to take in boxes of books, leave them, they’d sort out what they wanted to keep, record the credit (no cash, only credit towards books), then give the rest that were in decent shape to the library. The local library has a book sale every Saturday that the…

I’m allergic, so no problem.

I changed over to Pyrex glass a few years ago, and I’m so much happier. No more food stains. No more smells. Minimal soaking time. I wipe off the worst, and put them in the dishwasher.

Just after we moved to our current home, we got a package from DirecTV containing equipment, at our address, but apparently a previous tenant’s name. I called DirecTV and they expected me to take it to the post office and arrange for it to be returned. It’s been sitting in a closet for over two years. Whenever AT&T…

The problem with a lot of foods that don’t contain gluten naturally, is that they are prepared in factories where foods containing gluten are also packaged. Corn tortillas are often run on machines that use regular wheat flour to help the machine roll out the tortillas and keep them from sticking together. Bob’s Red…

I hate it, because what you’re left with is rice flour and sugar. Horrible stuff.

Celiac is a disease; gluten intolerant is a condition. Two different things.

Sometimes I think you’re a pretty good troll; other times I think you’re just being a dick.