In many states, the tipped wage is set at $2.13 an hour. Think about all the servers that are getting stiffed, the dine and dashers, the lack of health insurance or the cost of buying it under the ACA, trying to work their way through school or have kids, and so on.

People are horrible.

Lane splitting is neither legal nor illegal in California.

Lane splitting is neither legal nor illegal in California.

Lane splitting is neither legal nor illegal in California.

Lane splitting is neither legal nor illegal in California.

Actually, no. The law defines lane splitting, but it is neither legal nor illegal.

Oh, my god, Heather! You’re so stupid. Shut. Up.

I think everyone should be required to work retail during the holiday season.

Very happy I live in California, and our leaders seem ready to secede.

For decades I got the “if you exercised more and lost weight you’d be fine” talk from every doctor I dealt with. Surprise, I’m fat because I’m sick, and have been sick for nearly 30 years with an autoimmune disorder that is not related at all to how I care for myself, but is related to genetics plus illness and…

I use this technique on my adult kids and coworkers.

My personal advice is to always get ahead of the narrative by going to HR first. You don’t have to file an official complaint. Just go in—this is where acting skills come in useful—and be upset about the horrible dreck you’re having to listen to every day and how upset it’s making you, you’re stressed and not sleeping…

There’s a huge difference between wanting to see someone’s body and asking for pics. She never asked for pics of any kind. If someone said to me that they wanted to see more of my body, I would work on the assumption that they wanted to see it in person.

That’s not how I make my money. I use the stuff myself. I have incredibly sensitive skin and it didn’t cause problems. My son used it to remove his stage makeup after starring in a school play. It cuts through anything.

Yeah, most cable shows won’t go that far, although I’ve heard more swearing on some of them.

They get to abuse women in the name of God, so I’m sure that’s a reason.

The carburetor in my ‘75 Rabbit came apart on El Camino Real, right next to Hillsdale Mall in San Mateo, in the early 80s, during rush hour.

It kept saying it was rated R, out loud, after each commercial break.

Coconut oil is comedogenic; it will block your pores, so avoid using it on your face. If you have stubborn makeup removal issues, try Garnier’s Micellar Water, which also comes in a version that removes waterproof makeup. If you choose to use coconut oil, be sure to fully wash it off your skin.