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That doll is giving me Fiona Apple Criminal vibes. Very creepy.

It's cool. You are entitled to your feelings. I thought I explained that I know they are goofing but I do not like the looks of it. I know it's not like that but I just see people not being able to keep their hands to themselves and it bugs me. I truly understand, though. And thank you for being reasonable in your…

Okay. I understand what you mean and I see your point. No harm, no foul here.

Do not tell me what to do. It is about seeing the undercurrent of the actions that people do. I voiced an opinion and I did it respectfully. If you do not like it there are other threads for you.

I do not think it takes away from her win at all and I ugly cried. I just question why JLaw felt the need to touch what wasn't hers. Like let her have this moment without touching on it. There are so many other ways to show you are happy for Lupita. It was unnecessary to me what she did.

Black women always have to play along, though. If Lupita hadn't there would have been an issue. She would have been uppity. And that whole bit about JLaw bowing out rubs me the wrong way also. It undermines Lupita's win. I mean, look at the conclusion you arrived at from JLaw talking about how she didn't want to win.…

It's like, yes, I get it. I know it was jokes. Doesn't mean I have to like it. And I do not even hate JLaw. I like her but this thing going on in the picture, no.

Well, that sucks if it is true. I am mainly focused on why she had to touch Lupita's Oscar at all. That is what's bothersome to me.

I understand they were playing around. I get that but it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

I hope they are friends or friendly because when I saw this picture it made me think that a black woman can't have anything to herself without some person wanting to touch what belongs to her. I am sure it is playful but she could have just hugged her and gave her congrats, ya know. And it makes me think of J.Law…

I have repeatedly said she did not deserve it. Not arguing just discussing. That's all but I am done. Since we both agree this should not have happened to her.

I did not say it was a sufficient reason for someone to get assaulted. It truly is not. I said it is a chance one takes in wearing them and not listening nor respecting the boundaries of others when they ask you not to film them. It is not so much as a right to privacy as it is being respectful when someone ask you…

Then those glasses need to come with a warning for the user. Which I would think is just common sense but if people ask you to stop filming them and you continue it could go bad. I am not condoning what was done to her. That was all messed up. It's just the chance you take when you decide not to listen to the people…

I read the whole thread just to make sure it wasn't mentioned but the answer is boundaries. Zanyelalaney made a great point about the length of the look but I also think not being asked comes into play. Someone is taking your image and they might keep it. You don't know for what reason. It could make one feel…

Quick note on the reparations thing. I used to think black people didn't need it and I didn't want it. Until I starting thinking about all the white people who got rich off of the backs of black people and were able to give that wealth to their children and their children's children. It was our black ancestors wealth…

I grew up in the south and still live here. I am also black. When someone white says this or that black person it reads like they didn't try to remember or learn the name. And if they do no know the black person there is still a bad vibe about it. It's dismissive feeling depending on how it is said. You know what?…

They are elusive but when they are there you'll know it. You don't find them they come to you.

Just wanted to let you know that your timing may not decrease. A man who was 54 lasted 2-3 hours. Usually like that. His grandfather died while having sex at the age of 68. For some it is a blessing if you are matched with a partner who likes that. I think short or long it's all good and no one should feel bad about…

Another point is that the daughters he has now repeat the Soon-Yi and Dylan pattern. I wonder why no one has picked up on that. One Asian like his wife when she was younger and one white like his older daughter. Very peculiar and I am being nice about that.