the-ex-crappy-homemaker
The-EX-Crappy-Homemaker
the-ex-crappy-homemaker

I've read most of the response to your question, and also your responses to them. The problem is that you asked a question to which you were not really interested in answers. You "asked" just so that you could answer it yourself and share how you think the world should work with everyone. You were not really

Ok dude, pop quiz: I told my bf that I'd wash the dishes before he got home at 5:10. I got home from work at 4, saw this thread, and was so incensed by your comments that I ended up reading the whole thread and replying, thus wasting the time I was meant to do the dishes. My bf will be home any minute.

You have systematically ignored or dismissed dozens of women who engaged with you civilly and politely, explaining exactly why your demand that women overtly respond to every single man who messages them on dating sites is unreasonable. You have not come up with any sort of response to them as to why you think they're

I agree that many people need to handle dating situations better; the profoundest example I've ever run across of a failure to handle dating situations well was a man who was so bad at dating that he didn't manage to drink enough water and ended up having to be hospitalized for dehydration. Talk about not handling

It's neat how you started out by minimizing the totally absurd and unacceptable behaviors of these men, made a ridiculous demand about how women act on dating sites, and then have totally ignored dozens of responses that were polite and made a perfectly clear case for why women don't need to act the way you wish. And

You "don't have any interest in participating in discussions that are going to devolve into screaming and shouting?" You mean like women who don't answer texts because they have no interest in participating in a discussion that is going to devolve into screaming and shouting? Huh. If only there was some analogy

Being close to a woman does not mean that you understand anything about women. There are many, many married misogynists. Your wife is not your shield. You are still speaking from privilege, from the knowledge that you will never have to actually deal with this scenario so you are completely safe in your position of

"There's a chance these guys are being a bit over-sensitive..." If you think all of this is only a "bit" oversensitive, I would hate to see what you consider to be "a lot" oversensitive.

As a guy who did the dating site thing (where I met my fiance) I hear you, but I disagree. Random people don't deserve the sort of total honesty you're pitching here, out of the box. That's something you earn over the course of a relationship with someone.

I was real salty the other day and was responding back like that (times 1000). Example:

Do I cheer for Meryl or Charlie?! I AM SO CONFLICTED!

You have a level head! Mom had natural births for me and my middle sister, then an epidural for my much younger sister. She said she was an idiot for not doing it the first two times. I know it's a personal decision but this person believes in modern medicine!

I'm the same way. I sweat, a lot, in general. I can't do a full shave without my skin freaking out. "ABORT ABORT DEPLOY FLOPSWEAT REPEAT DEPLOY FLOPSWEAT!"

Oh, no, that's what we call "reverse immigration" and you would actually create a break down in the space-time continuum and there would be quantum reduction in the number of children. It's all very scientific.

Jesus Christ, doesn't anybody read the Census results? Yes, "Immigrants" when spoken by right-wing pols is generally code for "Mexicans". People belonging to Hispanic groups, AS A WHOLE, such as Immigrants, have a higher birth rate than whites in the United States. The trend is not new, has been taking place for

Same, it's always been something that I just DID. NOT. WANT. I remember first finding out that it would be happening to me, and soon, and my reaction;

I get rid of all of my hair because I dislike it. Sweat clings to it and it feels pretty bad by the end of the day. I don't like the way it looks and consider it no different than any other thing I do for personal self expression.

"I beg to differ." - Michelle Duggar

Oh yeah?