Sex. Not seeds. i was so depressed that i literally had no sexual drive, and slept for 10 hours at a time. But now I can admit it to myself that I have a depression problem, and that in itself makes me feel more in control of myself

.... Are we the same person? My first boyfriend did the exact same thing to me, straight down to almost punching a wall. He tried so hard to get me to do anal, and I laugh about it now to make everyone feel better about it, but in all honesty, it was terrifying. I said no, and he kept trying anyway. He seriously did…

Hi! I am also mixed (French-Canadian/Sri-Lankan), but very pale with dair hair, and facial features you'd find in women of colour. I've had similar reactions when I tell people I don't think of myself as white. People can't handle anything but a Yes/No it seems...

We don't think of it as complaining. What an extremely (though expected) rude way to dismiss people talking about their lived experiences. If you don't care about our experiences, go somewhere else. If you want to know, listen and don't talk. Here's the point: we're a community of people that live similar experiences,…