double post. grr.

I agree emphatically and you are amazing for doing that. My fiancé's sister decided she didn't like me early on because "she was the one who wanted to find his next wife ." She badmouthed him and me to everyone in the family (only the jerks listened) and turned his kids against me by telling them I was trying to be…

I'm going to stop complaining about my mother's pre-wedding behavior now . . .

15-year-old me is insanely jealous of Lupita.

He left The Office.

How awkward are Melanie Griffith and Dakota Johnson. For real.

Oh, yes, I didn't mean to imply that all people who have bpd are a certain way. I'm hoping the movie shows more about the character's relationships and struggles, as people above have highlighted, instead of just being a "freak show" that relies on hyperbole. That won't do anything positive for mental health stigma.…

There are so few folks with bpd who seek treatment and diagnosis, probably because of ignorance and stigma. That's great that you are working towards being able to live a normal life.

My fiancé divorced someone with bpd and trying to co-parent his three teenagers with her has been utter hell. It has been so difficult to get the kids' therapists and the [many consecutive] parenting coordinators (esp. non-PhDs) to catch on to the family dynamics and the way she attempts daily to destroy his life and…

Man, the Oklahoma legislature's really got it going on this week.

Scientists Collect DNA To Clone Woolly Mammoth, Like A Real-Life 'Jurassic Park'

In my experience, the kinds of guys who would do public proposals without an already-discussed "yes" are the ones who have absolutely no boundaries, and are merely egging on the rest of the no-boundary-having men out there, perpetuating the idea that women think this sort of thing is "romantic." These are the same men…

Did he happen to be named Ross Gellar?

I was my ex-fiancé's third engagement. A couple of years after I left (he didn't like to pay for stuff or clean stuff), I learned that he was back with fiancé #2. I take great delight in referring to her as his "current-girlfriend/ex-fiancée." Also, if they get engaged, she will be both fiancée #2 and #4. Hee hee.

OH. My fiancé's BPD ex-wife is named Tina, and she makes life hell, so I think of punching her a lot. I believe she is also a boob punch.

I do not know who that person is. Perhaps I would prefer it that way.

P.S. - I love your name. Is there a pop culture reference there?

Yeah but wasn't there some sort of eyebrow-wax-gate perpetuated by Kim?

So . . . will North West grow up to be gorg? Or will she be one of those average-looking-children-of-celebrities? Or will they plastic surgery her early and emphatically enough so that we can't tell?

I already suggested a topic about sisters and sisters-in-law and whether or not you should/have to have them in the wedding party, but I would also LOVE to see a post about step kids. How did you involve them, how did you involve them if they didn't like you, refused to come to the wedding, etc. My fiancé's got three…