I went to a gym class in the South and they were playing “hardcore” Christian rap and I found myself running to “Bathe in the blood of Christ!”

How will Jill deal with the possibility that Zika could fuck up a potential pregnancy in Central America? It's not like they stop having sex for any reason in that family.

I wonder though if most of the women polled were looking at it from the perspective of “this mostly hurts women through coercive practices and trafficking and therefore it’s really bad” rather than “those slutwhores”. In which case, yeah, it makes sense that women would view it more unfavorably since we’re the ones…

I’m disappointed in my fellow women.

You are writing to a black girl who was told she was an oreo most of her life so while I have sympathy for your cousin I also understand that this is what a lot of black kids go through. I was in to No Doubt and Green Day and I used to specifically say that I didn’t like rap and the reason I said it was because I…

Yeah I watched the whole season, and I agree about a lot of the comments (the soccer mom comment was not even thinly veiled racism). That does not mean that I have to approve of Jubilee bullying people about their racial identity. She also signed up for a show to compete with 28 girls to date a guy....then acted like…

You really thought LB was the prettiest? I actually thought she was one of the least attractive, and by far the least attractive of the top 4 imo. To me she looks like generic “guy hot”/girl who would pledge an average-slightly above average sorority. Now Caila on the other hand I thought was beautiful, also Jubilee,…

Even if I agree that that statement is true....out of curiosity what purpose, besides bullying Jami and Amber and making them feel like shit about their racial identity, did Jubilee’s comments serve? They weren’t furthering any discourse, and it would seem a little bizarre for someone to just randomly decide to say…

Can we just acknowledge that Caila is also mixed race....?

Jubilee and Olivia are exact opposites and they were both labeled as “controversial” so that tells you how bland and boring you have to be to stay safe on that show. Jubilee seemed pretty genuine and super insecure, whereas Olivia was the most secure contestant I’ve seen since Bentley on Ashley’s season (remember that…

“I don’t think that’s offensive. I’m full black.”

That wasn’t all she said, she also said she was the only real black girl. This was in conjunction with her constantly making comments about how she was different because she’s “complicated”, implying that all the white girls/biracial girls were of less substance/she was superior in every way. Given that attitude, I…

I guess I just think it’s racially insensitive and a dick move to decide that you are so important that you get to tell people how “black” they are and determine their racial identity and experiences within 2 seconds of knowing them and to deliberately make them feel less then because of it, but that’s just my opinion.

I can understand how that insecurity about being the blackest/unable to “pass” on a show like that wouldn’t bring out the best in someone, but I still just think her comments were insensitive and when it was brought up she should have reflected and owned that and apologized.

Why is this site so insistent on holding Jubilee’s hand? Considering that she’s an accomplished, grown-ass woman who can obviously handle challenge and adversity, it’s condescending as hell to keep making excuses for her. Sure (as in any reality program), one should be wary of crafty editing...but if what we heard…

You get to travel around the world for free, which a lot of contestants say is a big reason they decide to go. But yes, certainly more and more go on so they can promote products or their company or get social media deals.

Hate-watching? Fuck that I love watching this show. No guilt involved, it’s pure pleasure. I guess a lot of the fun is debating where the bullshit ends. But you’re dead right about the contestants setting themselves up for intense emotional pain. You really have to have a sociopathic streak to enjoy it. The weirdest…

I love Jubes, but that was some super fucked up shit she said to Amber and Jami. And it was very telling about her own issues that she couldn’t recognize how two other black women would be offended by her saying they weren’t really black. I would have absolutely loved to see her as the next Bachelorette (one can…

That guy was insane! I did, however, really appreciate Chris’s insistence “No, don’t touch her!” Because who know what else a guy who got an essentially random woman’s face tattooed on his body will do?

Your peers in school do not influence your grades, your college acceptance, and you do not have a professional reputation at school to worry about. If a fellow student is inappropriate, they can and should be disciplined, expelled, etc. This is apples and oranges.