Bleach changed my life. I legit went from listening to NKOTB to Nirvana and Nine Inch Nails. Grunge was everything I felt inside put out into the open. Cobain was uniquely talented and I treasure the music still, but he was also a deeply troubled person. I agree that the posthumous piling on of accolades has…

I haven’t watched this doc because I avoid all Courtney related media. It all just hurts the 14 year me who loved Live Through This the way most people loved Nevermind and In Utero. I still love the shit out of that album. I know she’s one fucked up piece of work, but I can never stop rooting for her.

I remember Kurt and Courtney together very well. Kurt was never going to be a fifty year old rock star- desperately clinging to the last vestiges of his fame. He was always going to be a wounded misunderstood boy genius that died unfortunately one way or another and he was always going to have a wife/other who fit…

I will never forget, one day I was unloading my car for a party with my best friend and my then boyfriend. The BFF and I were discussing our great love of Hole, when the boyfriend, all pissy, asks how on earth we can like Hole when Courtney Love heads said band. I asked him what he had against Courtney Love, and he…

This was wonderful, Julianne. I was 19 when Kurt Cobain died. I was from a small town and didn’t know how to rebel, or even really why I wanted to. I just knew that I loved their music, that it spoke to me. It was angry, sad, and triumphant about something I couldn’t quite put my finger on. Learning more about the man…

Regarding that “God *will* judge”. Here’s a copy paste from to-know-javale post on Gawker’s post on this issue.

Pro tip- if your takeaway from this awful story is to make it all about your own personal hurt dudefeels...you might not actually be as “nice” as you think you are.

#notallNiceGuys™

I would just like to take the time to remind everyone that Natalie Whatshername didn’t write Torn, and didn’t even tell the band that did she’d recorded it. They only found out when they started getting royalty checks out of the blue:

Dee Rees is brilliant, The Warmth of Other Suns is brilliant and someone at FX is hella smart.

Y’all hating on shondas shows, but I don’t see any of these white women or white men giving talented black women opportunities to develop television shows at their production companies. #staypressed #blackgirlsupremacy #blackgirlmagic

Sorry to go off topic, but this is an especially bone-chilling level of misogyny and religulous idiocy:

Smug bitch.

I work for PPP in Ohio and out wait list for abortion services is quite long.

• Highly restrictive abortion laws are not associated with lower abortion rates. For example, the abortion rate is 29 per 1,000 women of childbearing age in Africa and 32 per 1,000 in Latin America—regions in which abortion is illegal under most circumstances in the majority of countries. The rate is 12 per 1,000 in…

A friend of a friend is showing the fight at his gallery/theatre tonight.

It’s a $30 cover and all proceeds are going to a local women’s shelter here in LA. Total genius move that I wish more people would have thought of.

Or maybe don’t support an unrepentant woman-beater backed by a ppv company that’s damn-near criminal itself.

Pacquio showed up as a congressman for 4 days last year, and opposed birth control legislation that would have helped women in the Philippines. He’s a moron who gets to be in congress the same way he gets to be on a basketball team. Because his people are bat shit insane for him as a boxer and would sign him up for…