Well this is part of the problem. Women are raised to think that they are gross. So we get very uncomfortable when men want to go down. The first time a guy went down on me, I was shocked and uncomfortable. So that's problem number 1. Problem number two is the very common behavior of men who voluntarily go down, but…

I have not heard of this but thanks for the recommendation. I've actually found some good stuff online. He was always with women that were less experienced/aggressive/DTF than I am. So my whole approach is less act centered and more exploring the idea of full body/mind sensuality, and how various acts are naturally…

Blow jobs are a privilege not a right. I enjoy blowing my bf but he is one of those mid 30s inexperienced guys and had only been asked to perform on a lady a couple of times. In his defense he also tried to stop me when I went down on him when we were waiting for a meteor shower early in our relationship because he…

Hunts is terrible. Heinz 4 life!

Ahahaha. Yeah so I loooove to have conversation with people who claim they got "spiked" weed. I've smoked with the sketchiest of sketchy and the closest thing I've ever had was some dirt weed someone had sprayed with strawberry flavoring and tried to call it strawberry kush.

Totally off topic, but I saw that in St. Louis in the early nineties and met August Wilson after at a reception. He was so sweet and quiet and he spent a good bit of time talking with angry tween me about poetry (Ntozake Shange and Sylvia Plath). We, as a culture, lost a lot when he died.

If the implants are under the muscle does that mean they aren't in the way of self exams/lump checks?

That's super helpful. You must be incredibly popular.

If you really love food, I mean like happy dances in your chair and moaning around perfect bites, it is worth it. Even if you have to save $5 a month for it. My bf and I live on around 1500-1800 a month. And we can't do it often, but for me a really great meal is like a little vacation.

This is why people don't come forward.

I was sat in a little room alone and bullied by the prosecutor into accepting 6 months house arrest as a sentence for the guy that raped me. So, they may not be happy, but they may not have an actual,choice. Nobody gave a fuck (including my "rape counselor") that I was incoherently sobbing through the whole process. I…

I've spent 33 years living all over the country and picked Reno as my final spot. I packed all my shit up and came out here to settle down two years ago after spending less than two weeks here. I love Reno. But it's not some magical cosmopolitan oasis in the desert. It's a great place to live but it does have many…

Wow. You need to calm the fuck down. It is incredibly apparent that you are unable to recognize humor. It's an article about cheap wine and arsenic. Unlax.

The place I picked, you pick your main meat course and they include a ton of stuff and a glass of wine! My only stress now is do I get the chop or the leg?

You are so nice! I'm having a staycation downtown next week and Louis' Basque Corner has been added to the agenda.

Excellent idea! I've been here for 2.5 years and I always forget about the Basque places. So unusual and they look so good.

We went out a couple days ago and I was super excited that they had updated their wine list and had a single Sauv Blanc from New Zealand (my go to, never had a bad one). They were out of it, so I ordered the suggested alternative. This particular brand was both local and a supplier of white zin. I made an involuntary…

California wines, IF you are buying them from the vineyards or at a nice wine store, can be great. California wines available at restaurants here are (by definition) cheap and terrible.

I live in Reno and all you can get is fucking California wine at the restaurants. It is, to a glass, terrible. I guess I'm sensitive to both tannins and arsenic.

Tl;dr XOJane published yet another utterly tone deaf article by someone that should probably have been strangled at birth. At least this one isn't blatently racist I guess. Jane Pratt has destroyed all of the good will built by Sassy by publishing article after article by people who only deserve Thought Catalog. Stop…