Exactly what is rape if not a gender-motivated hate crime?

Um, actually I’d argue most male on female rape* is by definition a “hate crime” that is gender based, because its a FUCKING HATEFUL THING TO DO TO A WOMAN, and demonstrates utter disregard - if not sheer contempt - for women.

*Don’t get me wrong: male-male rape also hateful. Female on male rape = also hateful. I’m of…