not to diminish that, but.... she IS white. She IS wealthy. She is speaking through her lens. It doesn’t invalidate her voice purely because she doesn’t speak for every person all of the time.

yeah sorry but Comic Sans IS an abomination. Although I think Papyrus and Bradley Hand should definitely get more hate.

yeah, but do we find her annoying in part because we are seeing ourselves in our twenties, having first learned about feminism and sociology etc. Lena Dunham annoys me because she reminds of me... and sometimes makes me wonder if that how people viewed me: ie a knob.

haha all good :-)

lol no icky feelings here. Was merely pointing it out, after seeing a couple of people saying “go to therapy” like it’s a magic bullet. And was replying to brighter, agreeing with you.

I do find this “see a Therapist” notion to be one that is privileged. Therapy is something that is not easily accessible (good, non-student therapy I mean - a bad therapist is 100x worse than no therapy at all. ). I have to go to Therapy for the rest of my life and it costs a fortune. It’s the first thing to go when I…

As a divorcee with 3 kids and an ex who is remarried to the love of his life, I think it is also selfish to do this to someone you care about. I know people think they can “care” about another person and be married... but no. If you care about them, you want them to be happy.

Not to mention couples who engage in kinks like cuckolding etc, which is basically a partner who gets off on the other partner “cheating” and playing the role of “cheat”. There are a lot of grey areas.

For sure. As reluctant as I am to equate cheating with rape in any way (hear me out), it’s like that same old argument that rape is a sexual crime and that it is about the male sexual urges. No, it is an act of power & violence & dispossession. Cheating is not about the sex - it is about the deception & entitlement &…

I’m completely surprised he couldn’t get any action.

Not saying I disagree with you but just on the point of knowing ahead of time that monogamy isn’t really for you... I don’t know about that. The fantasy and conditioning is a hard thing to go up against. Ask any unmarried woman without children in her 40s.

lol that was my exact thought. They probably delete their accounts because dating sites, regardless of which one, are filled with entitled sleazebags like this guy.

I read it and it was like “He’s totally busy right now, not ready for a relationship, we are just hanging out...” oh boy.

I could care less what you think

*eyeball twitch*

Actual LOL. Comment of the day.

They’re just trying to get them to react/flip out, so then they can say “TERI HATCHER BITCHY MELTDOWN! HERE’S THE FOOTAGE”. Alec Baldwin falls for it. Every. Single. Time.

That headline made me literally laugh out loud. That is all I have to say.

Agreed. Perez Hilton being case in point. Remember (yes I am old) when he first started out? He was bitchy & ironic and everyone was fair game, doing the celebrity tear-down? Despite him as a person, I used to enjoy it, and Michael from D-Listed still sticks to this.

I think there’s just a point where the battle is lost, even if you keep fighting. I think Kelly just needs to make peace with less-than-ideal for the sake of her children.

Not sure what you mean?