The waist band seemed like it was in a very odd place. It created a silhouette that definitely made me look a lot worse and it wasn’t even comfortable? I've heard they've changed their fit recently, but I'm just not sure if I can believe that they've figured out sizing

For more budget friendly but still very comfortable tights, Snag Tights is amazing. I never knew tights could be comfortable before I got a pair of theirs.

You can still be bi and attracted to nonbinary people. Basically all of the bi people I’ve met ascribe to the Bisexual Manifesto definition of bi (in that it isn’t binary and encompasses attraction to multiple genders). I myself am also bisexual and nonbinary, and don't personally see any contradiction in identifying…

I saw Blood on the Dancefloor a few times as a teenager (because they were one of the only bands that stopped in my hometown...) and I am so viscerally uncomfortable looking back on those memories. I remember thinking it was sort of odd that the singer was so into socializing with fans before and after the show. With…

I avoid reading slumps by having a lot of books going at once. So I usually have 8-10 books that I'm working on at any time, some as audiobooks, some as ebooks, and some as paperbacks. Then I can rotate through genres until I find the thing I'm in the mood for. The bare minimum for me is 1 nonfiction (usually…

The hip men exist and their harrassment seems to be particularly focused on pregnancy talk. I was an early bloomer with very average breasts but very noticeable hips and I remember old men talking about wanting to get me pregnant from the time I was about 13. It's a particularly chilling type of harassment. 

Santa Fe is not remote. It’s a 40 minute drive to Albuquerque, the state’s largest metropolitan area. There’s also a low cost train that runs between Albuquerque and Santa Fe. Albuquerque is generally where people with cancer from other areas of the state seek treatment. As a lifelong New Mexican, I’m much more…

My partner and I have 4 cats between us and, while they all have very different personalities, they are all affectionate nearly to the point of clinginess. I do sort of wonder how people end up with such aloof cats since "loving adoration" is the only thing my cats all have in common with each other. It seems to me…

Benedryl is as good for shutting down an anxiety/panic attack as xanax and has fewer side effects. The downside is that it doesn’t work well for allergies unless you count being unconcious as a solution for allergies.

Most of my favorite people are Gemini suns or have strong Gemini placements. My wonderful long term partner has almost every personal planet in Gemini. The indecisiveness and difficulty prioritizing are really the only consistent negative traits I’ve noticed in all the Geminis Ive known.

I am, luckily, a pisces sun, which I think is probably one of the easier pisces placements. Still, I do generally avoid substance use beyond occasional drinking, since the temptation of escapism is often strong.

All the libras I’ve met have been shallow, social climbing, yes-men so I feel for you.

Its the self pitying quality of pisces. I just think that AT BEST, pisces are open minded and vague which are...not exactly stunning qualities.

As a pisces, pisces should be ranked much lower. But I also think libra is the worst sign and gemini is the best, so i might have unpopular opinions. 

There's definitely much more acceptance and even admiration for thin women with small breasts, but the expectations that plus size women should have huge breasts only seem to have intensified in recent years.

Having not worn a bra now for the vast majority of the pandemic, my (too big not to sag but too small to be impressive) 40E chest can no longer handle underwires or padding. My Rago longline bras are ok, but I’m starting to consider getting rid of my collection of pretty push up bras entirely.

Honestly, I haven't noticed much of a difference in my relationship with my partner of 9 years. He's dealing with some family issues and I'm dealing with an ed relapse, but our relationship is as good as ever. We do have separate bedrooms and bathrooms though, which i think helps mitigate the feeling on being trapped…

Sandwich bread never turns out quite right for me, but I might try this recipe anyway. I still think english muffins are the best bread to make from scratch: unfussy (no kneading!), griddle cooked so you don't have to use the oven in the summer, and they keep better than nearly any other homemade bread. Plus, they…

I'm a chronically early pisces who aims to be 5 minutes late but somehow I'm always 10 minutes early. But I'm very happy with being given menial tasks because I'm better at that than socializing

This definitely doesn’t seem to account for little kids who have really big picture anxieties. I basically didn’t sleep between the ages of 2 and 17 because I was so worried about the eventual heat death of the universe, the inevitable deaths of everyone I loved, and my own mortality. It wasn’t much of an option then,…