I just want to go up to her and say “Me too, honey. I choose life, which is why I had an abortion last year. I choose MY life.” I’ve become so mouthy with this. There are protesters around Memphis Planned Parenthood constantly and I’ve been asked many times to share my opinion, which I ALWAYS do.

A friend asked “Why don’t you like moscato?”

Her hair is so sleek and shiny. I’m jealous.

I’m surprised no one is exploding in joy at the fact that Jennifer Lawrence is part of that group picture

I remember trying SO HARD to pay attention and then saying “Finish your story you’ve been talking for HOURS,” only to be told “Bitch, I’ve only been talking for 3 minutes!”

Are we really so shocked when celebrities vote in ways we might find uneducated? I remember Lainey, from laineygossip, writing about how the escalation of fame alters actors. She mentioned that the higher on the food chain, the more people treat actors like they have something to say, something worth hearing and this…

I have nothing of value to add to this other than the fact that at work a woman was lamenting that she was allergic to potatoes and everyone was saying how much that sucked in relation to never eating french fries. I thought for a moment and said “Yeah and there’s no comparable substitute. Jicama? Fuck off with that…

Agreed! He asked my opinion on it and didn’t like my answer and threw out the whole “She’s mature! You were mature then.” I said “I was mature, but I was also 20. It doesn’t matter how mature I was.” I told him about my relationship with a 26 year old when I was 19 and I said “While I can’t say it was bad, I know now…

But please tell me it’s sad and pathetic when a 31 year old man says that to you about the 22 year old he dated for less than a year.......no seriously, please tell me because I think it’s SUPER PATHETIC

I was in shock and I can’t believe I was actually pretty NICE in response when she didn’t deserve it.

Thanks for the name shout-out - I was so surprised it wasn’t taken. I actually wrote about that experience within a day or two of it happening, just to process it and she said “I won’t read your essay” and I said “I really wish you would.” http://tartis.kinja.com/my-abortion-16… That side doesn’t want to hear anything…

Oh, I let her get it out and then sighed “You know, if I regretted what I did, this would be a really really fucked up phone call; as it stands it’s just hysterical, self-centered, and rude. Go fuck yourself.” And she’s been out of my life ever since. Huzzah!

You’ve done it. You’ve made me regret my decision! ;)

I knew at 3 and had to wait till I was 6.5 to have it because I live in TENNESSEE. Fuck anyone sticking their nose into this issue. What I did is no one’s fucking business. A “friend” called me afterwards to say “I don’t hate you, I’ve just never known anyone to who did this and I’ve been crying about your choice for…

Which is fucking ridiculous because brunch is fantastic.

I mean money in the sense that both are independently wealthy and it seems like, for them, it’s not something they need to argue about. That must be freeing.

Am I supposed to be snarky about this because I can’t imagine why I should be. It seems like they’ve pulled off an amicable divorce and are focused on making sure their kids see their parents “together” and not acting like angry children. I have no problem with anything she’s saying. Good for her for being able to…

Again, this is was SUCH A GOOD RESPONSE - it’s like you articulated what’s been going on in my mind since Friday :)

Thank you so much! I really do feel like this is the end and I’m working through it the way that I need to, the way that works for ME. I said everything, I didn’t leave anything out and I started to feel lighter by the end of the conversation. I’m ready to move forward and where he ends up isn’t for me to worry about.…

That’s my plan. I’m legitimately going to be really busy with this new job and I think that will make the transition easy. Did I mention school starts in 4 weeks and I have NOTHING? This is what my mind is focusing in on like a crazy person.