Pap: Well, I mean you're famous…

Yeah, I have to disagree with Mark that there was "only one way to handle it." This probably felt cathartic at the time, but it's not a good look.

No, that's not a good way of handling it. That just spreads more pus around. And no doubt her inlaws are now concerned about who's joining their family.

If you're a grownup (and if you're getting married, you should be one of these) and you don't want to invite people to your function, don't. That's it. Full stop. If…

I'm really glad I like my parents.

Apparently you are not even remotely familiar with Harper Lee. Not sure why you're commenting in that case.

I'm not touching it. Unless there is irrefutable evidence that Harper Lee is totally down with this, I'm calling it bullshit and I think anyone that buys/reads this is slapping that poor woman in the face. I'd be mortified if something of mine was published in this fashion, and I'd like to be a published author…

C'mon, she's been sitting on this thing for what? Fifty years? Clearly she never wanted it published. i'm not buying that it was "lost" either.

Ugh. This whole thing is a mess.

My husband still needs to ask if the gender in "transgender man/woman" refers to their gender identity or their gender as assigned at birth. But he doesn't know anything about the trans community and certainly isn't being paid to write articles even tangentially related to it. It's not hard to fact check things before…

Okay? That's when you know your shit is foul. When Richard an 'nem are like, nawl.

Welllll...that's because truth.

I had a good friend from college tell me that she thinks we have access to too much information these days, and then said (I wish I were kidding, I used to be quite close with her) "Like with Bill Cosby. Why do we need to know about what happened twenty years ago? It just makes everyone upset."

I'm almost wondering how he even ever had time to work. Was he just hanging out in his goddamn patchwork robe, raping people like constantly?

I made a preemptive and unequivocal statement about how self-delusional his supporters were. Nip that shit in the bud!

Maybe I missed something but I REALLY find it telling that no one from Black Hollywood besides Whoopi and other convicted rapists are coming to his side. Not Mrs. Rashad not Mr. Poitier not even Mr. Belafonte. I mean NO ONE is rushing to his defense. No one is saying 'Oh Dr. Cosby is incapable of doing this because…

Ugh, I knew they would come along:

I suspect you don't...really know what "every" fat person's dream is. Trust me when I say it isn't more candy.