WOW, literally everyone in that thread is repulsive.

Bodybuilding.com is a cesspool.

Oh ugh, I took a look at that thread. What a douche! I hope this woman sees this, dumps his ass hard and dramatically, and then tells us about it in deliciously excruciating detail!

wow...these guys are smart as toast.

Wow that sucks. What a weird site/thread. I don't understand any of that. No idea who the girl might be, but I hope she finds out so she has some warning.

I used OKC and Tinder when I worked overseas the last few years. In the States nobody really cares that I'm mixed because it's not something that immediately jumps out at you; I pass for white easily here. But not the case in Europe. Tinder was bearable, but OKC was horrible. People deliberately scoping out my…

Being an Indian woman on OKC is probably the worst thing I could I have ever done this year. #girlbye

I dropped out at 20 due to depression! I'm now 26, graduating in May, and looking forward to graduate school. Advice: GO FOR IT AND KILL IT!

Well it has the added benefit of being free so you should ;-) a lot of degrees are offered in English btw so it's not a crazy idea (check out Denmark too!)

My grandmother went back to college at 65. more than 40 years after she'd left. In a community/junior college, it is VERY common for students to be older - 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. 21 isn't old at all, for college or first real boyfriends.

Sure! They're more successful for lots of reasons. On a basic level, brains are more developed, so they have better judgement, lower impulsivity, higher empathy, etc. — all things that help a person get along with instructors and classmates, and be open to subjects outside their normal interests.

Oh gosh. I hear you. I was recently let go from my job, and am frantically looking for a new job. (I live in the US, btw). Fortunately, I got unemployment, so that takes some of the stress away. I hope you can deal with your career problems. I know it's hard, but I believe you can do anything you set your heart to do.

I left school at 21 because of depression and didn't go back until I was 23. No one noticed that I was older than them; if it came up in conversation they still didn't care.

No good advice on the relationship front here, sorry... But, if you feel like you're ready to try school DO IT!!! :-) You're definitely not too old- i just went back this fall (age 38). I should've waited until i was about your age the first time i tried college,but i went right out of high school and proceeded to…

Thank you! I'm liking it a lot. I just finished my first quarter and I'm getting in the swing of things. It's hard to work and go to university at the same time but it's worth the hassle.

You're never too old! I dropped in/out of 3 colleges before I settled into something that really fit me. When you're an older student, I think, you appreciate the opportunity more and are more committed, because you made the choice to go back instead of just going because it's expected after high school. I'm not…

You're DEFINITELY not too old! I'm in my late twenties and just went back a couple years ago, and while there are times that I feel older than everyone else, for the most part I absolutely love being in school with my current level of maturity. I'm totally kicking ass academically, and I feel like it's largely because…

It's partially because schooling is free, so a lot of people work for a bit after gymnasium. Some also do a special kind of program before uni at a folkhögskola that runs for a year (also free!) and tends to be a little more interest-oriented. A lot of people also start a program, find out they hate it, then switch to…

I teach college and you are NOT too old. Students your age are generally more successful and mature. And if it's something you know you'd regret not doing, DO IT. Don't wait!

22/23 is definitely not too old to go back to school. My partner returned at 24 and dropped out again, then went back yet again at 30. Boyfriends are a pain in the ass. I mean, slightly more accessible sex, but ugh, the upkeep.