Nope. I’m in this scenario. He can do every other day but not more. And I want every day. Accusing women of being at fault isn’t very kind. I feel rejected regularly. It’s not my fault and, it isn’t his. We’re just slightly mismatched and working through it.

This! We have an every other day routine now but I'd love every day. He would not. I know it's just his drive but I still feel rejected every time. My feelings of rejection make him feel terrible in turn like he can't give me what I want.

I was 26. Had sex in a hookup scenario that turned into a long term relationship. You never know. You do you. People can be stupid.

My friend and I both switched to the Mirena IUD and love it. Definitely noticed increased libidos.

I have the Mirena (the hormonal IUD) and love it. My friend and I both got it after being on the pill for years. Huge increase in libido. I had the paraguard (the non hormonal IUD) for awhile and didn’t have a great time with it. The Mirena is wonderful though!

I love my Mirena! And so does my friend who switched after being on the pill for 10 years. The skyla is even lower hormone than the Mirena so I wouldn't worry about hormones too much. We didn't experience any negative effects. I had the Paraguard (the non hormonal one) for awhile and disliked it. The Mirena is great…