I had a falling out with my best friend of 17 years about 5 years ago. We were inseparable and she’s in almost every memory I have; it’s like someone burned down my archives. It was harder than any breakup I’ve ever had.

Ad much as I enjoy sex, I've never been disappointed by Netflix. So my vote is for Netflix.

Happy Birthday Long Ride. I hope you're doing ok. Turning 30 isn't the milestone everyone makes it out to be. In fact, you're only a day older than your 29 year old self. I turned 30 in an airport after a huge delay meant I had to stay overnight in Le Shit Motel with 2 cats and screaming 5 year old. We had to board…

Not talk about it. You can just do the right thing without telling everyone. That's not only for issues of racism, it's also just a general rule. You shouldn't need positive reinforcement for being a decent person. Just be one.

I feel slightly uncomfortable admitting this on Jezebel, but I can go from "MISANDRY!" to Damsel in Distress in six seconds flat.

From now on I am going to tell all my man-friends that my misandry is an evolutionary advantage, even if I am not even really PMSing.

The term "race" isn't really used in the same way in Scandinavia as in English speaking countries though (though we do speak of racism). You'd never find someone who isn't outright racist speaking about someone's race (they'd be more likely to talk of an ethnicity or a nationality). In Scandinavia, race is used for…

This may or may not be the legal equivalent of a child covering his eyes, and saying, "If I can't see you then you don't exist."

Much though it is really important to put this crime in the context of a dangerous and hateful men's rights movement, can we please put the "lol fedora" jokes on hold and show some respect toward the victims of this act of terrorism? He didn't just post a humorously stupid video. He murdered women because of their…