YES! Some women can't have children, some don't want to, and others just haven't yet. This doesn't make any of them any less sympathetic to this fucked up situation.

Personally I find it troubling that some people can't feel genuine love and empathy for children unless they're their own.

No joke, I had a guy approach me once and tell me I was his dream girl just because of my "ever-elusive thigh gap" (his words). I truly didn't even know that was a thing that guys pay attention to, but it is. I asked him to clarify, explained that it was just genetics, and walked away feeling pretty disgusted. I mean,…