So much THIS. I have never ‘settled’ for a partner I wasn’t really into, merely because I’m supposed to be too insecure to pursue the ones I want. I had plenty of fun with lots of beautiful people (inside & out) (LOL, pun not intended, but let’s roll with it) until I met the most beautiful one of all.

Sex during my thinnest anorexia days was the worst. Now I’m fatter (read: a healthy weight) and I love bouncin’ on that d

Get it.

As a fat woman who gets plenty of the sex with plenty different types of people, many of whom look in a way that even thin folks consider “holy shit hot” territory, let me assure you— feeling insecure about how you look in the sack has nothing to do with weight and everything to do with patriarchally enforced…

Can I rant for a minute about how much I fucking hate comments about “normal bodies” and how “real women” have curves? It’s just so pointlessly divisive and belittling.

I think the problem can be that people end up having a lot of unspoken assumptions abou what marriage means. While you’re two people who like each other and bang regularly, it’s more or less ok. But the pig story is a great example of someone thinking that wife=cleaning staff. My father was a piece of shit and I got…

I remember a day my school was on lockdown because of the rumor there might be a gun on its way to school. I remember the teachers bringing my seven or eight year old sister to me, because they could not get her to calm down. I remember sitting in the floor of the bathroom with her, and trying to convince her to slow…

Shit.... this is hard. Well I guess I would have to say... umm...

Shit.... this is hard. Well I guess I would have to say... umm...

Modern dogs really did evolve for this. They exist as they do because they were domesticated. I really believe that they feel deeply that their purpose and highest satisfaction is to serve a worthy and appreciative human. Even if it is by letting the UPS guy know he’d better not try anything or by being by our sides…

He’s also sad that I had the #5 pick and couldn’t draft him again like last year.

He’s sad I passed over him with the second pick in my fantasy draft tho I’m sure.

Hi! So I totally get what you mean about being freaked by the hormonal birth control- I had two different pills really fuck up my life- like depressive suicidal thoughts, weight gain, acne, and horrible mood swings. That being said I am totally paranoid about getting pregnant so just condoms alone would not work for…

I know the General Opinion is that Drake is Not Good Enough, but I think he’s the best. Of all the choices of rappers out there right now, I’d 4 sure pick him. Seems like a sweet, genuine guy. Why is that not good enough?

Counterpoint.... Temecula and RanchI Cucamonga!!

I just saw this on TV in the lunch room. I literally jumped up and shouted, “FINALLY!”

Has anyone used Manic Panic hair dye before and is it any good? My anxiety’s getting really bad again so I can’t decide whether to temporarily dye my hair or not, but I’m supposed to be moving soon (we look around the house next week), so it’ll have to wait until we’re in the new house. Does anybody have any thoughts,…

Got my hair highlighted (for the first time!) blond and red highlights in my naturally dark brown hair.

Oooooh, I’m jelly! I love balayage. It’s hair color that makes a statement, but is subtle too.

I’m building up the confidence to wear lipstick more often. I’ve been using a Clinique chubby stick for everyday, because it’s basically a tinted balm. If you want more color, Too Faced melted lipstick is pretty great!

I got my hair balayage-ed yesterday, and while I’m quite pleased overall, its much....blonder than anticipated. I’ll be adjusting basically all of my makeup as necessary for the next few days. It’s good to swap things up every so often and the natural auburn-brown was desperate for an update.