No deer lady! Netflix said they were in on it and had a great time. So either they just “walked off” to go get pizza for everyone cause they were lovin it, or they were WAY too sensitive.

It’s kind of a big deal when a number of American Indian actors walk off in protest. They might have valid concerns.

That frustrates me too. I really liked James Deen, and I don’t feel ashamed for ever liking him. It’s like people expect to be seen as holier-than-thou for ‘never liking him in the first place’, like they had some sort of foresight.

Ugh. Sorry you had to go through that.

I’m in the same boat. I found James and his schtick VERY hot. There was an unreasonably long time where I only watched scenes featuring him, because he flipped my switches to a serious extent.

AHHHHH. DAME LIZ BUYERS CLUB. THIS RULES.

Agreed. I’ll admit it, I thought he was hot, I fell for his whole “feminist” act, I thought the rough stuff he did was consensual, and it turned me on. But I believe and support Stoya and I now find him disgusting. It definitely feels very victim blame-y when people imply that they knew something was wrong with him,…

I wouldn’t necessarily call it money, if you’ve ever been involved with running a business you’ll know how extremely difficult it can be to reverse the tide once you’ve set off in a direction (generally planned months in advance).

It also implies that you can tell who is a rapist because rapists are all creepy, you know? None of them are ever charming and likeable, no sir. It’s not like sociopaths are masters at manipulation. Definitely not. And then there’s the “of course he was a rapist, I knew he was one all along” - implying that his…

Feel the need to rant.

Eh. I think the knee-jerk cries of “sex negative!” and “kink shaming!” whenever anyone criticizes porn or kink in any way are ludicrous. I also think a depressing amount of commentary on this site over the past few days has been misinformed and self-righteous at best and mean-spirited and occasionally outright cruel…

I want to use “cock and mind” all the time now. “Sorry, I’ve changed my cock and mind.” “Are you out of your freaking cock and mind?” It’s a good decision.

I cannot understand why it is such a difficult concept for these individuals to understand. If someone says no, says a safe word, asks you to stop, or looks uncomfortable you should stop. It does not matter if they have consented to that sexual interaction or a different sexual interaction before, if they are your…

How the fuck does this shit happen while other people are in the room and filming and nobody says anything????

I’ve seen two more performers share their assault on Twitter today. Hopefully someone in the media picks up their stories. They deserve to be heard.

wait...you don’t put your feet up on your couch? i mean...that’s like half the appeal of a couch...you know, to get comfy and kick your feet up...

“You know what the values tell you? Why are you 15-years-old and letting some boy take advantage of you?”

but I do really enjoy not ever feeling judged for drinking/clubbing/travelling while my kid is being babysat.

I have a Facebook friend that posts the realest mom shit and I love it. Like, covered in puke or just bitching (not all the time and I don’t love the puke) but it’s so refreshing b/c most of the time her Instagram life looks so idyllic. It’s nice to see the “real life” part of it too.

We call it a War on Women precisely because assholes like you think forcing a woman to make a man wear birth control is preferable to giving her control over her own body after private consultation with her doctor.

Of course, he’s a guy who thinks we should protect our country by forcing other countries to wear our…