Under the Affordable Care Act, which Papa John vociferously and publicly opposed, large businesses are required to give all their full-time employees health insurance. It doesn’t matter if a job is meant to be a career job or not, and it’s utterly insane to suggest that only people in “career jobs” deserve health…

You do realize that people that harass people aren’t just doing it for the sexual kicks? A lot of times it’s just about power. Some may be doing it because they are just horny, but a lot of men do it to women because they know they won’t get in trouble and even just making someone uncomfortable makes them feel like…

I think your points are generally good, but it is important to distinguish that this stuff isn’t really just about being a horny fucker. Its at least partly a bullying kind of thing.

I have to be honest, assuming the poster wasn’t misrepresenting his wife, that just sounds like a compromise between two consenting adults.

That is an amazing tip and I’m so glad you mentioned it, but I find it only works when you’re not outnumbered.

Especially if that person is not your social equal (i.e., it’s someone significantly older than you are, or they’re in a more senior position, or you’re in their home, etc.).

If, for instance, you try to use…

Congratulations* on their long relationship!

A 6?

“You look at everything all over the world today and how women are dressing and what they are asking by just presenting themselves the way they do. What are they asking for? Trouble.”

“crazy” is some bad self-talk.

You deserve someone who will love you the way you need to be loved to be happy. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Hey, Knuckles Deep here. You all (and Jane) have really said things that mean a lot to me, I appreciate it. Shortly before the publication of this letter, he dumped me “I can’t give what you need from me,” was the reason. I love Jane and her advice, but it is not within me to chill. I want what I want and I can’t…

Very true. I think back to my college days when one guy told everyone I was crazy. Why was I “crazy”? - Because he told me he had broken up with his girlfriend and that we were dating exclusively when he actually had not broken up with her and was dating both of us and when I found out I was angry - therefore, crazy.…

Knuckles Deep makes me sad because she describes herself as crazy and needy - now unless she’s broken into his house and stolen his child’s bunny and boiled it, I think “crazy” is some bad self-talk. She isn’t needy - she’s a person with needs and you only feel “needy” when those needs aren’t being met. I hate “love…

I disagree in part to the answer to Knuckles Deep: If she’s enjoying herself, then yeah, marriage might not be the endgame. But if that’s where she would like to be headed, and he won’t acknowledge that and affirm it, he’s not really “all in” on their relationship. He’s not saying, “I see your point but I don’t really…

Re: Wendy’s

Gonna need to know more about the salad bar...

/closed-toe dance shoes only; learned the hard way

When I bought my house I used a female realtor and financier. Never once did they ask about what man would be helping me purchase, move, or live there. And when the bank told me how much they were willing to lend, both women advised me that just because I could borrow that much didn’t mean I should. My mortgage is…

For real. Yesterday someone on MSNBC was talking to a man from the national guard, they were broadcasting the call. The reporter asked if the national guard guy had any important messages to convey- his answer was, “DON’T SHOOT. If people are in stores taking food and supplies, they are in survival mode, and we’re…

And it’s not like the store’s insurance is going to do anything but total the entire contents of the store rather than nickel and diming, looking for every can of tomato sauce and copy of In Style that can still be sold.