"....when you got together with ex-boyfriends without telling me, and accepted dates from other men, but didn’t call them dates because you didn’t think they really were." oh, christ.

ice skating is so goofy.

our boyfriends look alike! mine's shaped more like a wine bottle though.

what's missing here is the class aspect, and how the continuance of unpaid internships drives a bigger and bigger experience wedge between people who can afford to live and work for a time without pay and those who cannot. especially considering many "top" internships, especially in glamour professions known for being…

agreed. it's been proven over and over that the best expectation is to expect the unexpected.

oh god. the other night i brought a guy home for the first time in months. he was like "should i stay" and it took every fiber of my being not to rudely tell him to GTFO because yours truly needs to sleep starfish.

i went to a steakhouse and ordered a steak medium well. the waiter came back and told me that the chef had REFUSED to cook it like that. now, i personally like it that way because i've got a natural and always-existent aversion to soft-textured meats (rare cuts, fish, etc). i still like the smokey flavor of steak. i'm…

i legit like it. smoky taste, man. the texture is less fleshy too. i just don't like soft texture. don't hate on me, bro.

except for sex before marriage is a fucking smart idea.

boob out.

boob out.

I find that most people, whether they admit it or not, preferentially view childrearing tactics in favor of however they were raised. That's because people have a drive to look upon their parents favorably, think of them as "good" people, and want to consider themselves "good" people too. That's why we're quick to…

the heart wants what the heart wants.

ballet is terrifying.

girl. i'm from the midwest. i am 25 and EVERYONE i know back there is getting married. I live in NYC now. Most of my similarly aged friends here aren't even seriously dating anyone. it. is. regional. i spent time taking heat from my home region about my age. you know what? fuck those people. you do you. there is no…

it's pretty awful that there's this level of sexism but holy god, can we discuss for a second the hashtag situation?

I think it's a nice idea if someone may not be able to afford a 3-digit check. I certainly can't imagine any way in which their careless response could be justified. If I got a gift basket at best I'd enjoy and appreciate that these people care enough to put in the effor, and AT WORST I would think "eh, it's the…

Yes. It takes 2 to tango. That being said, I literally know NOBODY who expects that they'll make a profit off their wedding. I know that people give big gifts, yes, but that expectation is just unrealistic and defeats the purpose of what the whole event is about. Weddings are fucking expensive! If you're pressed for…

yup. i did know that. also bupropion (the main 'ingredient' in wellbutrin) has been linked to seizures and other bad things. that stuff stays on the market though because major psychopharmacological pharmaceutical companies a) make bank on behavioral drugs that most people don't need and are in fact likely dangerous…

so basically these drugs are like repurposed antidepressants....