I get it. You are a cheater. Thats why you can't see the absurdity in some parts of this woman's story with an objective and critical eye. But if you can, she (and her husband!) have said some very important things for people who are considering cheating in spite of the damage it may do. And that is what this thread…

I’m glad we agree you get to choose not to cheat on your partner.

You get to choose not to cheat on your partner. Don’t forget that.

Also! Choices that hurt other people even if that is not your intention is a silly way of phrasing “doing something I know is wrong and will decimate my partner if they find out”. Sure, some cheaters might not intend their affairs to be acts of emotional decimation, but no emotion feeling human thinks that cheating is…

no, no, trust me, we all just need to live more life to truly appreciate how wonderful it is to get cheated on by someone you love

the best advice you will get is to live life a little more

you just need to live life a little more

you just need to live life a little more

You just need to live more life.

hahahahah what IS THIS? Live more life so you can come to terms with your partner cheating on you, getting caught and then dictating the length of your emotions? HAHAH WHAT IS THISSSSS