This movie made me realize I was gay

How about now?

I am a man who has some advice. I just had this same experience and it really blew up in my face. I would only stick around if you are SURE that he isn't falling for you.

I wouldn't worry about it. I came out at 35 and had the same concerns and found that no one gave a shit. And I found same sex first dates are so much easier. When I used to meet women I often found that we had almost nothing in common but when you meet a man you KNOW you have one very profound thing in common, and…

Does this only happen with people you really like? It started happening to me when I would get naked with guys I had just met about a year ago…which I think may have stemmed from self slut shaming and worrying about STDs. The first time I was like, huh, this is weird, and then the second time I was like….nooooooo,…

So……any advice on where? I tried them once and the headache I got was OOC. Im asking for a friend. ;)

why would you need to do this?

I am dead on average length wise and a little over average in girth and I use magnums exclusively. I have never had a magnum break while it happened pretty regularly with regular condoms (when you are going to Poundtown, at least). They are easier to put on and more comfortable to wear. I don't think they are more…

Agreed, @liquidslam:disqus. Lurking on the discussions in the savage love comments quickly became a weekly highlight for me. It truly helped me come out to myself, my friends and family. After hearing how @avclub-9ff7c9eb9d37f434db778f59178012da:disqus's parents found out I figured I would also survive. Less car…

Its also worth noting that the failing can be half of the fun if you look at it right….some of my funniest stories are from terrible dates

I came out as gay around the same time you came out as bi….at the ripe age of 35. And I am quite shy myself. Anyway, you may be surprised how much easier it is to go on dates with men. Every date or hookup you go on has the potential for a great conversation about being gay or coming out. It's something we all…

ah, the hair dye

Me too, me too! Then the south street philly location after leaving home. Hip Hop in the basement…