But why is that?

I’ve followed your posts and I am so very, very sorry for your lost

How old are you, if you don’t mind me asking? Because I know in Sweden, you have (maybe had to if they changed the law) to choose your citizenship at the age of 18. If you chose American, then you would have to go through the long citizenship process like anyone else should you change your mind later. Do you know if…

They do have this:

Dude, it is so much worse than just “having sex with a 13 year old”. Like, I would write out the details, but I don’t want to trigger anyone. It was so fucked up. Me and an ex had a huge argument about it because he tried to explain it away using the same, “it was the 70's” logic, even after I told him the details.…

Dude I broke up with tried the same thing, as in his inability to deal with conflict was something I should just learn to accept. I peaced the fuck out quickly and have not looked back. Time is too precious to spend it miserable in an attempt to make someone else happy

Thankfully I have and am much better for having left that place. And because of the hell I raised, the women after me had a much better experience. But it took about 2 years for me to not be angry at the injustice of it all. Like, I followed the rules about knowing my worth and fighting for fair pay (they actually…

I wrote about this here a few years ago and I only recently stopped getting mad about it.

You can try hopper. It has been pretty good at predicting when is the best time to buy flights and I’ve used it for about a year

No, no, no. You do not get to use an armchair diagnosis of mental illness to protect your obvious love of a known racist.

Talk to your children in your mother tongue. Even if they are around other people that never speak the language, they will learn from you if you only speak to them in your language. And when they get older, you can find some formal classes to help with spelling and refinement. The biggest mistake I see is parents only…

Just wanted to commiserate about the gray pubes. I wish it was only 1, now there’s at least a dozen. And so few on my head.

Have you heard the term “yellow wasted”, which refers to a person with light skin, but strong afrocentric features? As in, the yellow skin was wasted on a person that still looks so obviously black. I wish I was making this up.

And while I loved her acting in it, Blanchett’s character made me want to punch kittens

I love her and think her name so freaking beautiful. Just rolls off the tongue like a delicious wine

I read the NY Times article with my mouth wide open, in the train, in total shock. I loved Frida and Selma before, this makes me love her even more. For she has to be a truly beautiful person for her friends to pull together to help her dream come true.

I worked with Flay as a production assistant and though I heard he could be a dick before I started, her was actually really sweet to me. He even asked where I was when I had to take a day off and most of my duties involved making sure his car was waiting for him when he finished shooting. So it makes me sad that he…

My biggest problem with the show was that Nola’s character read as a man’s interpretation of a sexually liberated woman instead of a woman’s take on the same subject. Samantha from SATC (series, not movie) was a full character that many could relate to, despite her sexual hijinks. Nola was often ridiculous and they…

Um, he got a key from the front desk and entered without her permission. As in, she did not give him a key and he entered without receiving any indication that she wanted him there

he had the power to make them meet him there in the first place.