I had this experience the other day and it was with a WOMAN. She was a little overweight, maybe 230 5'4" or something. I'm tiny and short. And my boyfriend was on the other side of me, he's 6 feet and a little chubby from being a cook (not as much as the woman, though). I don't mind squeezing into my boyfriend, so…

A US prison would NOT do the same thing. Jails typically do the "bend over and cough" thing to check if you have something "up there"... i know this from experience. No cavity searches. And after a court day? As if someone could have given her contraband in the middle of court with guards all around her? Yeah,…

I'm crossing my fingers for the North Korea Olympics! Hey, it's cold as hell and they have mountains... and plenty of slave labor to built the stadiums or whatever!

I have smuggled heroin and a needle on so many airplanes, I've lost count. And yes, being a female helps... It's easy to fit a .5 cc needle (with a cap, duh) and a small bag of H inside myself... it's a little uncomfortable, but I take it out as soon as I cross through security, I just go into a bathroom on the other…

I always write everything with exclamation marks and then feel silly.. you should read the article about "champions" someone else linked to in their response to my comment... it's about our type and it's the most accurate description of myself I've ever read!

They don't do that. Watch Blackfish. The animals at Sea World are often from other sea parks all over the country... one of the whales they talk about a lot in the documentary was brought down from Vancouver. Absolutely NOTHING about these parks is natural. It would take me too long to explain it all, but I am…

I like this Jezebel article, where commenting is divided between Myers Briggs types — I've noticed that ENFPs use a lot of all caps and italics and exclamation marks. ENFPs are the best!!!! (I have noticed that when I'm writing FB statuses or texts, I end almost everything with an exclamation mark!)

I think her song "wrecking ball" is actually pretty good (it raised my opinion of her talent from zero to maybe 60). Also, I have a lot of respect for artists who can preform songs while crying on stage. She definitely has a good voice and stage presence.

Bunnies aren't manly? Tell it to this stud! (from Gummo!!)

The first time I got street harassed I was 11 years old sitting in my parents minivan in suburban Illinois. The guy couldn't even see my upper body or face, just my legs, but that was enough for him to comment. Since then harassment has been nearly constant. Male friends are often surprised when I tell them about…

If you find the right person, a 24/7 relationship can be just as blissful. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years (tomorrow is our anniversary, actually), and we have lived together that entire time (yes, from day one, we were living together while working in Alaska, hooked up, and the rest is history). …

Well, i don't go around writing or telling everyone that Asians are smaller. I'm not sure I've even ever mentioned it to anyone outside of this Gawker article. Actually, of the Asians I've met, the Koreans tend to be closer to average or maybe a little bigger than average, whereas the Chinese and Vietnamese are…

It depends — if I'm turned on, I want it as deep as possible. If I'm not into the sex (for example, when I'm escorting), I don't want it to touch my cervix at all, it's painful. That's interesting that it's less painful after orgasm for you, it's the opposite for me. but yeah, different for everyone. i've talked…

I feel like anecdotal evidence gathered from at least 500 people approaches some level of scientific fact, at least within my metro area. You're wrong, it hasn't been proven that race has no correlation to size. The fact is that it hasn't been proven either way. There have surprisingly only been a handful of…

actually it totally is based in truth... see my response to buzzgirl. i'm an escort and have seen tons of penises, and asians really are smaller. some of them are average size but i've never seen a larger than average penis on an asian guy (not that it's impossible, I just haven't seen it). also, studies of penis…

yes, it's very easy to rent a dungeon if you want to. my cousin is a domme and i have done some sex work so i know about these things. i know in most cities over 500,000 there is at least one dungeon, larger cities have more. find an escorting or bdsm website for your city and ask about it, or possibly just use…

i'm not sure either... the only reason i mentioned this story is that the whole topic of the article was the study that supposedly showed that men prefer women who are shorter than them, often enough that it's statistically significant. probably most relationships end up like this for the simple reason that most…

Yeah, maybe, but men do draw the line somewhere, and before I heard these stories, I kind of thought that a 6'3", moderately overweight woman might be over that line for some guys (not all guys, but some). but as it turns out, it seems like to the contrary, a lot of guys were more taken with her than they were with…

oh, and yes, it IS difficult for many people to pick someone up at a bar... if you're insecure, like i am. i've never picked anyone up at a bar. ever. and i am 5'3" and a moderate weight, people say i'm pretty etc, but it doesn't mean i have the self confidence to walk up to some guy and say hello. (i've been…

for one thing, she's very very tall (6'3") AND overweight for her height, not tall and skinny. she is pretty. but she sticks out in a crowd, she's got to be one of the tallest women i've ever seen. so naturally, as this article suggests, people would assume that she'd have trouble finding a man. the whole article…