You apparently need to write more clearly. But I don’t have time for this since you obviously aren’t here to discuss, but to “win.”

“there is open consent just by being there”

In Rambo, Stallone is not actually shooting people. In porn, Deen is actually hitting and otherwise dominating women.

“because he was popular with the feminist women they were targeting.”

Actually, as an outsider to this conversation, it totally is an apt comparison.

“If you have a problem with this site, maybe you should spend your time elsewhere?”

“You don’t need safewords except during sex in which one or both partners plan to ignore signs of reluctance/non-consent from the other and/or one or both partners are not permitted to express other signs of reluctance/non-consent.”