Yes, I agree. I was just sharing an anecdote.

It’s not weird - just perhaps overly personal. My aunt more or less ruined her body because my uncle wanted a kid of his own. She wanted to adopt; he didn’t. I was never keen on the process before any of that went down (mostly because of orphans, but also because there seemed to be a period where having triplets or…

Any one of the rulings listed above should have been career ending mistakes for this guy.

Research, hmm? I don’t know if I would call my great-uncle's rambling Facebook posts research.