That's so easy! Just start making enough food for one person. If he complains, shrug and tell him you were hungry.

Hi five! I also won the partner lottery and have a man who does half the work. Part of it is that I was raised by a STAHD, so I had some high expectations when we first moved in together. But the rest of it is just that he's a cleaner person than I am, so he sees the work first and does it. It's magic.

It's shocking and sad how many people—as in, our friends and people whom we thought were pretty modern thinkers—are still so "impressed" with how devoted of a father my husband is and the fact that he's the main cook. We are always so puzzled by that.

Haha, fair enough - I have trouble resisting myself, sometimes. They make it so EASY! It's like someone holding a huge target that says "HIT HERE!"

Hell, I have a cleaning service now that I pay for all myself. Fuck cleaning forever.

I would rather split the cost of a house cleaning service with my s/o and have neither of us do it, and instead split time cooking.

Yes, thats exactly what she said. Totally right. Yup.

In so many ways as I get older, love is having someone who can clean the cat box or take the dog out when I have a late meeting. It's many other things too, but having a life-teamate makes a HUGE difference.

It would probably be helpful if people didn’t assume that any man who takes in interest in childcare was a pedophile.

im just gonna go ahead and not have kids

i have nothing more to add other than you have to start this quid quo pro early on in the relationship. it's not fair for anyone in the relationship to try to negotiate major role changes once baby comes or when someone gets a promotion. if your partner is not willing to pull their weight, you need to know before…

First rule of fashion when walking the carpet: CONSIDER THE LIONS.

She's like a Lisa Frank drawing come to life, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

It's very easy, though, for a family to go through a sitter service that performs background checks and thorough interviews on all potential sitters/nannies. Assuming that all men/most men would automatically molest a child in their care is very dangerous thinking — and exactly the type of thinking this article is…

I'm a guy. I've had sex with nine different women in my life. Not Charlie Sheen, but I have an idea as to what goes on. Some vaginas are small and tight, some vaginas are bigger and looser. It's not a bad thing either way. It's all wonderful and amazing. Vaginas are not alike, but nobody should feel bad about what…

Oh, you want PTSD care? Me, me, me, that's all I hear from you kids!

Correction: WE FOUGHT YOUR WAR FOR YOU. KTHXBAI.

This drives me crazy. WHO DO YOU THINK WAS GIVING US THESE TROPHIES? Aliens? Ourselves?

Ahh, "S8er Boi," her song about a Jewish boy coming of age.

Huzzah for vinegar! And I use salt as an abrasive to bring up darn near anything that a rag won't wipe up. I think 99% of the battle is having plenty of CLEAN rags to swap out and a big reservoir of clean water.