i've been struggling with this one throughout my engagement. on the one hand, i feel a strong sense of identity with my name and i don't necessarilly want to give that up in favor of my future husband's name. on the other hand, i love his family far more than i love my own. i've known them since i was 15 and they've…

i think they fucked up on the starvation scene, but otherwise i though having katniss look healthy was a great touch, it spoke to her skill as a hunter/gatherer.

my people! i'm so happy to see fellow seinfeld haters!!!

i'm trying to find work as a special ed teacher, so i don't know what grade or skill level i'll be working with next year.

That sounds so cool. I'm going to see if I can adapt this for my younger kids.

i prefer him bald, but yeah. he's pretty fuckin hot.

how long do things like that typically stay up for sale? i'm trying to reach some pretty lofty goals and i'd be willing to save up for them as a reward for accomplishing those goals, but i'm not sure they'll still be for sale in 2-3 years.

i got really excited that there was a buyable version of this dress, because HOLY SHIT. so i thought to myself, "i wonder if that could be my wedding dress." then i googled the dress and laughed at myself for being a naive poor person.

i fell in love with those high black boots with the skull detail. but $1,500? yikes.

i'm a PTSD nerd so i really enoyed the third book, but i seem to stand alone on that one.

the president would sometimes send them to her as a message that she is under his control, and that theme plays out a lot in the second book.

nothing wrong with that, though the pose isn't exactly flattering.

aside from "physically fit" and "thinks i'm beautiful" this list could be summer up as "intelligent" "adventurous/curious" and "compassionate". Hardly an extensive list.

thanks! i'm always on the lookout for ethical brands.

just commenting to say that i love how you had a boob job and your user name is dangertits. awesome.

agh!!!

i kind of dig it. it seems like her whole fashion is about obviously being fake, so it fits in well.

it's unfortunate, really. i love her fashion sense. i love that she goes so over the top with it that it somehow seems like performance art.

NAZI@!!1

i am lucky enough to be marrying a man like this, and to be good friends with a few other men like this. they are some of my favorite people in the world. these men totally exist, they do it in a way that doesn't sound whiny or like white knighting, and they are awesome.