I am so sorry, I don’t know if it will help you, but we have put three cats to sleep over a decade, and it has been heartbreakingly sad but so loving, if you think how few people are held and whispered to while they die, being put to sleep while you are held, snuggled in a warm blanket is far better than what most…

I try hard to be open and available to others since I was left to google “will my miscarriage hurt” . God.

It is weird how all the Drs are different, two other women I met through treatment were pregnant around the same time and though we all had health issues in common all three of us got differnt treatment. I tried so many things to get antidepressants, but nope, none to be had. However, the depression nobody wanted to…

I had to plan an alternative because I was so depressed, but no one would give me antidepressants because of trying to get pregnant. I had been planning on trying every last thing but after five years we just couldn't anymore. It was really important to me to remind myself that there were equally valuable life…

It’s why we held off on paying OOP for a vascetomy but I have had enough <1% things happen to me reproductively that I still worry. Some. Like when you are trying to remember if you unplugged the toaster? Like that.

Ha. It was bad enough. Sometimes I think I should not read these articles and comment because it’s hard to go back, but I will always be there any way I can to help fellow infertiles.

I had one too and it permanently changed me and my marriage. I suppose that can be said of many, things but it was so horrific and drawn out and gory.

Oh yeah, I was literally designing my dream mini cooper online when my Drs office called.

I have a ligation and am so terrified it will fail. After five years of infertility and two out of three very, very risky and costly pregnancies I am both terrified at the idea of putting myself and my family though another high risk pregnancy and also very very afraid at what an abortion would do to my mental health.…

It took us five years, we were at the breaking point and got pregnant our last cycle. It was weird because I had already started detaching and planning our Superclean White Carpet Arty Apartment Life. If you have not yet found Stirrup Queens online, it's very helpful no matter what path you are on.

I have had multiple nightmares about my ligation failing, I could not have sex for nearly a year. I was too afraid.

It was horrible and I was very depressed for a year, really miscarriages are this terrible gray area where no one helps you.

It took me four more years and a lot of dollars. Then they fixed what was wrong and B1G2. I am also done, mine will be 6,4, abd 2 next month.

It did, eventually.

I am so sorry. After mine, my asshole FORMER gyno had just automatically sent my stuff(?) to the hospital she used and I had just been starting to calm down and I got a fucking registration packet in the mail. It was so hurtful and started me right back to crazy town.

They get extra cool if you keep them in the fridge. I was very impressed. I have good friends who get migraines so I always keep a look out.

I saw you said you’d try anything. http://www.amazon.com/Kool-Soothe-Mi… I got these ( the kiddie version) for my kids for fever and liked them so much I was looking at the reviews and saw how many mentions of how it helped with migraines there were.

We use a GABA supplement too.

You bet.i liked them because they used them on coma patients and so I figured why not. I played them at night. I take some hippie tea with magnesium in it from Whole Foods now.

BCP made me crazy. Like...my period was better but the price was being a rage beast.