You do what feels right for you. He's the one that threw the car in reverse. I am glad your friend is there for you. Some day this will be a shitty memory and it will pale next to your awesome present.

I found it did, plus by the time you got the wipe to the baby it was cold anyhow.

Sometimes?

Me too, thank God. With our first I pumped because everyone said I should but I hated it and I hated cleaning everything. And it never got me any sleep anyhow. He had reflux so it was like nothing for him to throw up a whole feeding and then demand more. It was crazy. With my second and third I never bothered.

it’s ok, I’m glad you did. I did not realize til after I had it done that they can fail. My whole reproductive life has been my body doing the opposite of what I want so I kind of feel doomed. We had years of infertility, spend a ton of money, had our son, then had two surprise babies. I had like...a less than 3%…

I am so sorry you had to participate in that hot bullshit,

it’s the most beautiful thing I have ever read.

I hate those people. UGH

I am glad you are alright. I have had multiple nightmares about it. I couldn’t have sex for months because I was too nervous. I was really relieved that the baby kept me too exhausted for sex because I was so afraid. We are thinking about my hsuband getting a vascetomy, but I don’t know if the insurance will cover it…

Contraceptive film is a small square of spermicide you place inside, just like is on a condom. It dissolves. No hormones. My brand was VCF.

When people say that to me I get..not a panic attack but I fall into this spiral of fear. I get so angry and also afraid.

None? I am allergic to latex and used spemacidal film.

I am so afraid of being the teeny percentage whose ligation fails. I’ve had nightmares.

I just wanted to check in on you

My neighbor has herpes from that.

Frank and beans makes me laugh.

My tongue feels big now. I think the grossest name for a penis is “willy”.

I just learned something new, apparently per my husband’s balls,sometimes they don't sit right

I hope you are ok.

I told her she was an embarrassment to me as an American