Address meant cleaning it, obviously.

Not really. It really is just about you putting your desires, needs and standards above another person's and deeming yourself more important. Simple as that.

I haven't lived with my parents since I went to college.

How?

Ooooh, a typo. You sure showed me.

I'm just consistent.

*Shrugs*

Hey, I'd be happy to find a man that I could tell to dress exactly as I want him to, eat exactly what I tell him to, work out according to the exact routine I set for him, have sex when and only when I tell him to, only purchase the things I allow him to.

The fact that you do most of the cleaning doesn't mean the system doesn't work, it means that you have much higher standards than your husband.

Are you suggesting that that's natural or unchangable? I don't see your point?

I never claimed the man or woman would be the defacto clean person. I don't believe in gender essentialism or that women are inherently more tidy than men.

Wow. You sound like a legitimate crazy person.

Absolutely. It's their job to live up to your standards.

So maintenance cleaning = maintenance sex, essentially?

I'm still looking for it.

You've said this many times, it's not getting any truer.

You're free to label them an asshole.

Then you're likely to do all the cleaning.

Nah, if you have such a problem with the way a person handles their space, perhaps you shouldn't be partners?

I disagree. If two partners are so distant in terms of what you view as comfortable living conditions, perhaps they are simply incompatible.

I disagree. If two partners are so distant in terms of what you view as comfortable living conditions, perhaps they are simply incompatible.