Sure they can’t. I guess that’s why Larry’s show is such a hit.

As a fellow survivor myself, I find it sick that you would use the fact that you were raped to make someone feel bad for having a different opinion than you. Katmandu had every right to disagree. You saying “as a rape victim” to justify you OPINION ABOUT A CELEBRITY GETTING THEIR PICTURE TAKEN ON THE STREET is the…

You are not the only person who’s been raped or talked about it here. While rape is about control, not everything controlling is rape. Using rape to describe a non-rape, belittles rape victims.

Yes, I agree that his actions are definitely part of rape culture. But describing something as rapey when it isn’t, in fact, actual rape downplays the seriousness of rape.

I understand what you’re trying to say with this, but I think it undermines the serious nature of actual rape to use that word in relation to anything other than the literal act. Just my two cents.

But Becky simply means white woman. That’s it. It has nothing to do with promiscuity. I mean it’s one thing for a white person to butcher, redefine and then columbize black lingo (*cough* Erin Gloria Ryan *cough*) but for a black person to do it, it just makes me feel more perplexed than annoyed.