It isnt that she didn't engage with the rando, it is that she engaged poorly. If she had just ignored Deroir's tweet and internally said "whatevs he doesnt know what he is talking about" then nothong would have happened. Instead she chose to engage by saying that he was mansplainong and that he was only doing it…

Just out of curiosity, what would be considered a red flag statement in a job description? In my experience when applying for jobs, in Computer Science especially, the job descriptions were to the point and almost robotic. They didn’t beat around the bush or say anything anti-woman, race, etc... So I am really curious…