My question is why not just live alone and have relationships with whoever you want to. Seems like the best way to go if monogamy isn’t your game.

I don’t think it’s about marriage at all. I think it’s about most people not having the capacity to love deeply - themselves or anyone else. Therefore, they don’t know how to create or maintain authentic intimacy that goes beyond sex. Most couples don’t even question what they are creating at all or what their…