You are right. You can not call everything rape. However, I do feel on a deep level that unless there is explicit consent, then yes, it is rape.

Thank you for saying this! This too hits very close to home and I am still in the process of therapy. I relate whole heartedly thatidentifying myself as a "victim" is a hard thing to do. For goodness sake I was 31!

My experience was sort of similar... We were asked to think of ourselves (genitalia..obviously) as a cookie. Our favorite cookie. and that EVERYONE wanted to have a piece of our cookie. But our cookie is only special enough to share with one person. And really how "special" would our cookie be? and would that 1 person…