This is a thought I have a lot. I think at 36, I'm more well adjusted and a WAY better potential partner than I ever have been. However, I sometimes wonder if I am ever going to find someone who is my male equivalent? I wasn't stupid enough to have a kid with anyone, get married (and divorced) or do anything to fuck…

I love how every time a woman says she is having problems finding a date people respond by telling her to lower her standards. First, it is rare guys are told this (although the number of delusional middle-aged men who will react with shock and horror when asked to date a woman within five years of their own age is…

Yes, because we all know the really stable happy people are the ones who married right out of high school and are too scared to ever try for anything else.

No reason to feel sorry for us. I'm awesome. I've met plenty of awesome people. Most of us aren't damaged or fucked up horribly. I do have an odd personality, but I'm damn proud of it.

All the guys my age are dating women your age.

Yes, this. I am 38, never married. When I was a stupidly fearless 27 year old, dating was awesome! I had more guys than I knew what to do with. I don't think I've aged that badly (I'm regularly mistaken for 30, and I think I'm pretty cute), I have a nice job, I'm smart, I'm funny and I have great friends, but it's…